Troy Donald Hoke

In Loving Memory of Troy

September 20, 1968 – January 14, 2026

 

Troy lived life on his own terms: unapologetically, passionately, and with unwavering conviction. He was a man who didn't hold back, whether it be sharing his strong opinions or pouring himself into the things and people he loved. That directness, that lack of filter, wasn't just a trait, it was the essence and core of who Troy was, for better or worse. It made him unforgettable.

 

Born on September 20, 1968, Troy grew up with a love for the outdoors that would define much of his life. He spent countless hours fishing at Lake Conroe, competing in bass tournaments, and camping with family along the water's edge. Those early mornings on the lake, the thrill of the catch, the quiet moments in nature, these were where Troy felt most at home. Hunting became another passion, with many seasons spent at deer leases with close friends and family, including his uncle and cousins, where stories were shared and bonds were strengthened with people around him that he cared about the most.

 

At the early age of twelve, Troy faced two life-altering challenges. His mother, Ruth, passed away from heart complications, a loss that would shape him profoundly. Shortly after that, he was diagnosed with diabetes, a condition he would battle every single day for the rest of his life. Managing diabetes from such a young age required constant vigilance, discipline, and resilience. Troy never expected to live as long as he did because of his diabetes and health issues he faced over the years, yet he pushed forward with characteristic determination, defying his own expectations and living to the age of 57. In recent years, increasing health challenges tested him further, but Troy endured until the very end, squeezing every moment he could from the life he fought so hard to live.

 

Troy's life was anchored by his commitments and dedications: to his work, his passions, and to his family. As a construction superintendent throughout the Houston area and surrounding regions, he built a career defined by dedication and hard work over many years. Troy was extremely proud of the construction projects he led and was a part of, each one a testament to his skill and leadership. During his prime, he was a highly valued and sought-after superintendent, known for his expertise and strong commitment to quality. He approached his work with the same intensity, pride, and passion he brought to everything else in his life.

 

But perhaps nowhere was Troy's commitment more evident than in his role as a father. His son, Hunter, was his pride and joy. Troy threw himself wholeheartedly into Hunter's baseball journey, from games and leagues to practices and camps throughout childhood and high school. He was there, present and fully invested, always supportive, cheering from the stands and coaching from the sidelines. Baseball wasn't just Hunter's passion, it became a bond between father and son that defined their special relationship.

 

Troy married his childhood sweetheart, Sharon, whom he met in high school. Their marriage lasted many years, a testament to the deep connection they shared from their earliest days together. Though they later separated, the years they built together and the family they created remained an important chapter in Troy's story.

 

In 2010, Troy said goodbye to his father, Donald, who succumbed to cancer. Having lost both parents, Troy understood loss intimately, yet he continued to move forward with the strength that characterized his approach to life.

 

In many ways, Troy's life can be measured by his passions and his commitments: baseball, fishing, hunting, construction work, and family. He lived fully in each of these areas, holding nothing back. He was rough around the edges at times, but beneath that hard exterior was a man with a compassionate heart, a devoted brother, a dedicated father, and a loyal husband. And through it all, he was a fighter, battling a chronic illness from childhood, never giving up, and living far beyond what he thought possible.

 

Troy lived as he chose to live: boldly, honestly, and without apology. He defied the odds, cherished his passions and interests, and loved his family dearly. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him, and his memory will live on in the stories shared, the lessons learned, and the love he gave to those closest to him.  

 

Troy is survived by his son, Hunter, his brother, Paul. He joins his mother, Ruth, and his father, Donald, in eternal rest.

 

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."

2 Timothy 4:7

 

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A Note to Family and Friends:

This memorial is a starting point -- a foundation for Troy's story. We invite you to add your own memories, stories, and reflections. Troy touched many lives in his own unique way, and each perspective adds another dimension to who he was.

 

Please share your memories so we can honor the full picture of the Troy we loved. Thank you!