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Conor Whitehead
Tom P. Hayes
August 27th, 1980 - July 21st, 2022
August 27th, 1980 - July 21st, 2022
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Nicky B.



https://youtu.be/BIQK4-9YFyo To my brother... Today you would have been 42. Its taken me a long time to do this... it feels like my world has been ripped apart. It still doesnt feel fair. I had so much left to say to you. It wasnt supposed to be this way you deserved so much more time! There isnt a day that goes by i dont think about you. Even though your not here today you will never be forgotten and i know i was blessed to have you. The world has been robbed of such a beautiful person. In all your trials in life you never became bitter or uncommitted you only became more earnest, more sincere, and more faithful. You didnt complain but continued to serve others. You left a legacy and you deserve to be remembered. You had a good soul and even better sense of humor. I couldnt be more proud of you. You were very special and i feel lost in many ways. We'll miss your late night texts, your conversations with dylan about hunting, and your constant jokes about making sure Ariyah gets lots of candy and the occasional margarita or beer.;) You two had special bond and she had no problem telling me "no momma im staying with uncle tom!". I am grateful for the time we spent with you and always playing a big role ariyahs life as her uncle. She always gravitated towards you because you two were so much a like. A little ADHD and never has a problems telling someone how it is. 😉 Hunting season in here and it just feels so wrong not to have you with us. 😭 And i never in my life thought id bust out the old N.I.N cd and play it again. We used to blair that so loud when u took me to school after you got your truck. Ill hold on to all the memories close to my heart. In all the years youve always taught me to be strong, to be myself, and do not harm but take no ****. You always had my back and i always had yours. Your strength will carry on...and i will be armed with whatever battle comes my way because i know your right by my side in spirit. Thank you for all you did for me, all the time we spent together, and for just being my big brother. You are my flesh and blood. If it werent for you, i wouldnt be me. We miss you everyday here but we can feel you watching over us. I will carry you with me now and forever...until we meet again. TMFH,s sister
Robert Shober
I'll miss you Tommy...'til Valhalla brother.
Erik Jenkins

This photo is what tommy was all about at work, he found a random blow up monkey and put my name on just joking about and having fun with us, he loved all of us and treated us all the same.
Steve Fireball



God Bless ya Tommy. Blue Skies my friend.
wojg commander
Tom and I met in flight school and flew together in some choice locales. Within moments of meeting him you say to yourself "this is a good friggin dude". I was fortunate enough to witness the birth to some of the many nicknames Tommy had. My favorite was the sign saying hello to the post commander's wife. We did a ton of stupid shit in the Army together and he always made it better with his jokes, a can-do attitude and work ethic. Reflecting back, it was him and people like him that leave fond and everlasting memories in my mind. Hope to see you again, Chief.
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