Richard Day Finney

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Richard Day Finney

1937 - August 23rd, 2023

1937 - August 23rd, 2023

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A Shared Life ... Richard Day Finney was born in 1937 at Queen of Angels Hospital in Los Angeles. (Exactly 3 months later Jerry Walter, who was to become his life partner, was born 2000 miles away in a small Wisconsin community.) Rick attended Hoover High School in Glendale, during which time his father Howard passed away, and from which he graduated in 1956. He then attended Pomona College from which he graduated in 1960 with a BA in mathematics with a minor in linguistics. He then embarked on a 2-month tour of Europe with his mother Frances Day Finney. He took numerous graduate courses from UCLA. Rick met Jerry on September 1, 1962, and they soon started making a life together. Rick joined Jerry in Salt Lake City where Jerry was completing his engineering education, and found a one-semester position teaching math at East High School. Rick started teaching math with Los Angeles City Schools in the fall of 1963 at Portola Junior High School, and Jerry became an engineer at a local utility. Before Rick’s mother passed in 1975, he accompanied her on summer trips to Africa, Australia and Alaska. In 1976 Rick and Jerry made a 3-week trip to Norway. In 1986 Rick relocated to Eagle Rock High School. Rick and Jerry bought a tiny house as joint tenants in Los Angeles in 1964 in which they lived until 1995. Meanwhile, in 1964 they bought a lot at elevation 5600 feet in the Lake Arrowhead area in the mountains above San Bernardino. A year later they had a U-finish cabin built on the lot. They drove to the cabin nearly every weekend that they were not traveling elsewhere, and from then on it became their way of life. They rented a dock on the Lake, bought a boat, and enjoyed water skiing every summer weekend. They enjoyed winter cross country skiing in the local mountains. They discovered backpacking and made 8 extensive trips into the High Sierra. Their joint passion was photography, and through a national organization attended conventions, and were encouraged to produce several slide shows which they shared extensively. In 1981 they discovered Taos and in 1993 bought a small house there under construction, which eventually became their permanent residence after they both retired on the same day in 1995. Soon thereafter they sold out in California. At long last, after 45 years together, they could finally get legally married in the United States, which they did in October 2007 in Provincetown, Massachusetts. As the years passed, they built several additions to the Taos house, and enjoyed playing house and garden and raising their dogs together as the years advanced. Rick continued to learn Esperanto on line. They celebrated their 60th anniversary of meeting with an Open House on September 1, 2022. The end came for Rick on August 23, 2023 after declining health. The void is enormous. Donations may be made to the Taos Community Foundation in the memory of Richard Finney.       

Arrangements by Rivera Family Funeral Home, Taos.  To share a memory, please visit our website at www.riverafuneralhome.com

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Marlene Mcclung

I am Jerry's sister, and I met Rick over 60 years ago when the two of them drove cross country to our home state of Wisconsin. I was still in high school at the time. In all of those years, I have always thought of Rick as my "other brother". How fortunate I have been to have two wonderful men in my family and my life. I will miss Rick so very much. He was, and is, well-loved by so many, especially Jerry. Rest in peace, Rick.

Published September 7th, 2023
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Larry Torres

It was with great sadness that I learned that Rick Finney had passed away. He was a a student of mine in Spanish, Latin and Linguistics at UNM-Taos. We became friends and I was a visitor at the home of Nighthawk Trail, that he shared with his life partner, Jerry Walters. I enjoyed admiring their home chapel, their photographs and Rick's beautiful glass bolo ties. After their first 43 years together, when they went to Massachusetts to finalize their marriage, my Latin students gave them a surprise reception at UNM-Taos upon their return. I was pleased to read about their memories together. May the brave man Rick rest in peace. Deacon Larry Torres

Published September 1st, 2023
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William Slay

I was fortunate enough to have met Rick and Jerry several years ago as they were walking the Plaza one afternoon. After they visited my gallery several times I was invited to their home to view their extensive collections of southwestern art and northern NM pottery. Rick showed me some of his computer generated works and enthusiastically explained some of the process. Beautiful home, beautiful collections and beautiful couple. I so enjoyed getting to know Rick and Jerry and was delighted with their willingness to share some of their mutual love of New Mexico art and culture. Rest in Peace Rick and know that Jerry will be well watched by the many friendships that you both have here in Taos.

Published September 1st, 2023
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