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Michelle Wing
Raven Charlize Salander
June 8th, 2023
June 8th, 2023
Surrounded by loved ones, our dear Raven departed from this life peacefully on June 7th.Navigating declining health, Raven was able to access the MAID program, to take the time to prepare, and to leave on her own terms. She did so with the love and support of friends and family, and spent her final months, days, and moments surrounded by many who simply adored her.Those who knew Raven well can attest that she lived many a life, touched many a soul, and was generally kickass. She charted her own course from a young age, and if there is any justice in the hereafter, she is now walking into an ethereal version of the Lotus nightclub, circa 1982, reuniting with loved ones who’ve passed before her.Raven was a fighter, but only because the fight was often thrust upon her and the ones she cared about. Her ethics were her lodestar, guiding her through mercurial and hostile waters, often caring for those she knew needed safe passage. Her fighting spirit unquestionably seeded in her profound kindness, softness, and love for others. And when you were fortunate to be someone who touched her heart, who walked in the world in a way that resonated with her, her ‘tough-cookie’ armour cracked and we’d quickly learn that through connection, solidarity and resistance, “that’s how the light gets in.”
For the loved ones she helped raise and all the youth she supported in her life and work, know that she treasured her time with you most of all. You gave her reason to be. That is, to be able to send out into the world the energy, spirit, love and nurturance that she, her younger self, desired and deserved.
For those who shared love, friendship, laughter, food, drinks, drugs, poetry, art, music, tattoos and beloved pets with Raven, savour these memories. She did. For those who’ve walked alongside her during different life chapters, remember her for all the intricate complexity and fierce beauty that she is. For those still seeking closure with her, know she’d look fondly on actions that support youth and the care of animals.For those who organized and contributed in various ways to her trip to Berlin in her final year, thank you. She remained deeply grateful for this community-generated gift, and later named that the experience helped her to feel more at peace with her coming death.
“Three knocks in the dark awaken meClear and thunderingWhat spirit is this?Past lovers and friends gone from this world?Or my angels?Auguries, foretelling, that much more exists than of what we can know”~ Raven - from ‘Mystic Meetings’Raven specifically requested there be no formal gathering. However, she did request that different people celebrate her in their own way and that the general atmosphere be festive. Or to quote her directly, “Fuck’n Party!!!”An online legacy wall has been set up for family and friends to cherish. We invite you to share photos, memories, loving words and affectionate sass.
Finally, Raven named Allen Ginsberg’s ‘Footnote to Howl’ as a meaningful piece that she’d like to share in her memory. She read it to those present, before she passed. She also occasionally played for friends Patti Smith’s ‘Spell’, featuring text from ‘Footnote to Howl’. So with this, goodnight dear Raven. Our love for you remains immense. Patti Smith: Spell - https://youtu.be/_s1CSagowoM
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Lo
You changed my life. You protected me in my darkest times. You were always there with cards to play, songs to sing, yoga to breathe, poems to recite, and Tucker to cuddle. You stood by me when no one else could. I will always and forever be grateful and touched by that. Your part in my life taught me how to believe in myself today. It taught me to never give up. Never go down with out a fight. "Smoke 'em if you got 'em boys.." You were the most remarkable person I have ever met. The moments you were there for me will stay with me forever. You will never be forgotten.
Jody Roberts
I had one of the most amazing experiences as a Death Doula...I met Raven. I instantly knew as we discussed how to navigate the complexities of dying that my soul would be gifted by her presence. That when we shared our words and our silence it was heard by something far greater than ourselves. She is a beautiful Star Seed. She was a lighthouse for so many. I feel she lived a million lives in one small lifetime. I feel so blessed to have known her if only briefly.
Michelle Wing
On the Trans Rights BC website: October 5, 2015 Ask Raven Salander, and she’ll tell you she’s been “a 19-year-old transsexual for over 30 years.” She earned her street smarts the hard way, and she puts them to good use as a counsellor, advocate, and volunteer. Raven began providing advocacy and support to street-level survival sex workers in 1988. She continues that work today as a volunteer with Boys R Us, a resource for male and trans sex workers. She works as a counsellor for youth who are homeless or struggling with addiction, and has helped many queer, trans, and Two-Spirit youth transition from homelessness to stable housing. Yoga and writing keep Raven centred. As a volunteer yoga instructor at the Catherine White Holman Wellness Centre, she helps fellow trans community members share in the reprieve yoga can offer. You can hear Raven share her poems and stories at various reading series around East Vancouver. She also shared her perspective as a representative on the Trans Health Steering Committee, which works to expand access to gender affirming health care across British Columbia. https://www.transrightsbc.ca/thip-32maroonr/
Karen Heaps
I am so sad to hear of Raven's passing. My deepest heartfelt thoughts to those close to Raven that have been left behind . I taught with Raven at Open Door With my deepest love and respect Karen (Heaps)
Michelle Wing
From the Langara Voice website: Poetry helping to end stigmatization in LGTBQ+ community Raven Salander's uses poetry about her personal experiences to open dialogue about trans issues Reported by Taran Gill. Oct 19, 2017 Raven Salander, a trans woman and activist, hopes to destigmatize and create conversation around these issues through her poetry. “Many trans women have had to deal with extremely harsh conditions and consequently, depression; suicidal ideation, addictions and other mental health issues have been a big part of our life experiences,” said Salander. Salander, who has been writing poetry for 20 years, and publicly sharing it for four, preformed at Cafe Deux Soleils on Commercial Drive Oct. 9 during a Van Slam event. The context of her writing discusses her addiction, mental health issues, and her experience as a street-level survival sex worker in hopes others will one day be able to do the same. “I have received a lot of feedback from members of the audience who felt really moved and I think, to some extent, liberated by my readings,” Salander said. “It is important for those of us who can, to be visible and speak out.” Courtney Lewis, a trans woman and recovering addict, who attended the event, said she found inspiration from Salander’s poems. “Her words were touching and I am more inspired to keep fighting my urges,” said Lewis. Salander, who spent 45 years of her life knowing that she was not meant to be a man, came out at age 50. She is satisfied by the progress made towards transgender rights but is worried of looming backlash against the LGBTQ+ community due to the rising representation TV and movies. Her performance ended with a poem titled “The candle for Shauntau”, an emotional eulogy to her partner, whom was also a transgender sex-worker, whose murder remains unsolved till day. “We have seen alt-right and white supremacists present at our rallies for transgender and queer rights,” she said. “I don’t think we are totally isolated from the upsurge of right-wing fascists and bigoted attacks.” https://www.langaravoice.ca/poetry-helping-to-end-stigmatization-in-lgtbq-community/
Michelle Wing
An article about Raven in the Georgia Straight. Vancouver's Catherine White Holman Wellness Centre offers support to trans people by Gail Johnson - July 29th, 2015 No one likes going to the doctor, but for Raven Salander, the experience can be downright dreadful. The Vancouver transgender woman says that the health-care system is the last place where a lack of awareness surrounding gender identity should exist. “Whether you call it discrimination, oppression, or discomfort, it begins immediately upon walking into a strange doctor’s office,” Salander says by phone. “You’re met with a double take by the receptionist. Then you’re asked, ‘Can I help you?’ which comes across as meaning, ‘What are you doing here?’ “For someone such as myself, who came out later in life, my presentation is female but it’s also obvious that I’m not born female, so then what happens is you’re misgendered,” she adds. “I’m referred to as ‘sir’ or ‘mister’, and I have to correct people. It’s one thing for that to happen at the supermarket, but in a medical situation it’s highly uncomfortable and feels unsafe. So then you’re going to go into a room, take off your clothes to be examined, and all the while people who are there to help you do not get it. Sometimes you’re met with real attitude.” Salander, a youth support worker, came out four years ago—at age 50—after 45 years of knowing that she didn’t feel right being male. A Montreal native who is a certified yoga instructor, she began volunteering at the Catherine White Holman Wellness Centre two years ago. White Holman was a social worker and advocate for transgender people who died in 2009, and the centre in her name aims to provide health and wellness services to trans and gender-nonconforming people “in a way that is respectful and celebratory of clients’ identity and self-expression”. Operating out of Commercial Drive’s REACH Community Health Centre and open two Sundays a month, the wellness centre is run by volunteers. It offers primary and preventive health care, occupational therapy, counselling, nutritional advice, and free hormone injection supplies. There are an art group, access to legal advice, a community kitchen, and other programs and resources. Through yoga classes, Salander hopes to share with others the practice that has helped her cope with many of the challenges associated with transitioning and being transgender in a gender-conforming world. “There are often real barriers to activities like exercise and yoga for people who are dealing with gender issues, such as transgender, gender diversity, or gender-questioning,” Salander says. “Even something as simple as the change rooms in a public swimming facility or in a workout facility at a community centre or private gym can be barriers. We are a centre that is welcoming, inviting, and inclusive, and we provide an opportunity for people to feel at home and feel safe. “I started doing yoga for myself because it was a great stress-management tool and it made a big difference in my life,” she adds. “As someone else put it to me recently, it’s the one thing that works to turn off your thinking. To have that hour or hour and a half of just being with your body and being with your breathing has long-term benefits. It’s something I love and that has been really helpful to me and has been there through many, many changes and through some stressful times. It’s been a great advantage to me, and I’m honoured to be able to bring that to others.” Salander will be joining the CWHWC in this year’s Trans, Two-Spirit, and Genderqueer Liberation and Celebration March, which is organized by a gender-diverse committee independent from the Vancouver Pride Society. She says that despite the tremendous progress that has been made when it comes to awareness and understanding of issues faced by members of the transgender community, much more needs to be done. This is underlined by the fact that the B.C. Liberals—in a move that resulted in them being banned from marching in this year’s Pride Parade—refused to sign an equality pledge calling for new legislation to protect transgender people. “I don’t know how in this day and age they could take that position,” Salander says. “Public attitudes need to change, the medical establishment needs to change, and people need to be more accepting and embracing of those of us who are not part of the dominant culture as cisgender or heterosexual. “In describing Catherine [White Holman] in her bio, the writer said she saved a lot of lives with love. She believed that the marginalized were not loved enough by society, by family, or by the world. That’s how she approached her work, and I think that’s how the centre approaches its work.” https://www.straight.com/life/497246/vancouvers-catherine-white-holman-wellness-centre-offers-support-trans-people
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