Mrs. Modupe Mary Adesola (Nee Siyanbola)

ASSOCIATION OF RETIRED NATIONAL EXAMINATIONS COUNCIL STAFF OF NIGERIA (ARNECSON) TRIBUTE TO LATE MRS MARY MODUPE ADESOLA Good evening, esteemed family members, dear friends, cherished colleagues, and all who have gathered here this evening for this solemn wake-keeping. It is with a heavy heart and deep sense of loss that we come together to remember and honor our beloved colleague, Mrs. Modupe Mary Adesola—Mama Modupe to so many of us—who peacefully transitioned to glory in 2025. When the news reached me, it felt like the ground shifted beneath us. Mama Modupe was not just a colleague; she was a pillar of grace and wisdom in our workplace, a gentle yet powerful presence whose influence extended far beyond the tasks we shared. She brought light into every room she entered, and her departure leaves an irreplaceable void. Mama Modupe was, in every sense, a rare gem. Her extraordinary grace was evident in the way she carried herself—always calm, always composed, even in the midst of challenges. Her uncommon wisdom guided us through difficult decisions; she had a way of offering advice that was never forceful, yet always profound and spot-on. And her boundless love? It enveloped everyone around her. Whether it was a word of encouragement during a tough project, a listening ear when someone was struggling, or a simple act of kindness like sharing a meal or checking in on a colleague’s family, she showed us what it truly means to care deeply. She embodied virtue in action. In our professional environment, where pressures can sometimes test our patience and character, Mama Modupe stood as a tower of strength. She never compromised her integrity, and her quiet dignity inspired us all to strive for better. Her infectious smile could lift the heaviest mood; even on the most demanding days, that warm, genuine smile reminded us that joy could still be found in the everyday. Her unwavering faith was the foundation of everything she did. As a devoted child of God, she lived her testimony daily—through selfless service, generosity of heart, and deep devotion not only to her family and community but also to her colleagues whom she treated like extended family. She was a true matriarch, not just at home but among us, offering hospitality that made our workplace feel more like a community of care. Though she has left our physical presence, the legacy she built endures. The lessons she taught us—about kindness, resilience, faith, and love—will continue to guide our actions and decisions. Every time we choose compassion over haste, wisdom over ego, or service over self, we honor her memory. Her enduring love lives on in the hearts she touched, including mine. To her beloved family—her children, grandchildren, siblings, and all who were closest to her heart—please know that we share in your grief. We cannot fully comprehend the depth of your loss, but we stand with you in sorrow and in gratitude for the gift of having known her. May the Lord, whom she served so faithfully, grant you comfort, strength, and the peace that surpasses all understanding. To my fellow colleagues: let us not only mourn but celebrate. Let us carry forward the light she so generously shared. Let her example challenge us to be better—to love more openly, to serve more selflessly, and to live with the same quiet dignity and unwavering faith that defined her. Mama Modupe, thank you. Thank you for the privilege of working alongside you, for the wisdom you imparted, for the laughter we shared, and for the love you gave so freely. Your gentle spirit touched us all, and though we say goodbye for now, we hold fast to the hope of reunion in eternity. Rest in perfect peace, dear Mama Modupe. Your work on earth is done, and well done it was. We love you, we miss you, and we will never forget you. May her soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. Thank you. COMRADE GEORGE C. ELEDAN, BOT SECRETARY/CONVENER,