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Desiree McNeely
Kristopher Paul McNeely
June 28th, 1985 - June 25th, 2019
June 28th, 1985 - June 25th, 2019
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Megan Evans



Emily McGee
Felix, I worked with your dad in the ICU at St. Bernards. I remember walking up to our assignment board one day while this guy was showing blurry pictures on a flip phone of his cats while wearing a Dolphins toboggan with a poof on top(way before you were born or I'm sure it would have been pics of you:)). I remember thinking who in the world have they hired now? Lol. Little did I know the guy would be an amazing nurse, coworker, and friend! Your dad could put a smile on anyones face by cracking a joke or telling an odd fact and lighten the mood of almost any situation. On a very stressful, important day at the hospital, your dad was chosen to be interviewed! I got butterflies from nerves and told him he better not crack a joke because this interview was so very important!!! He did so well and he didn't share any silly jokes or odd facts! Although later questioned me about how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop. Your dad had so many amazing qualities that I admired! He didn't feel the need to be like anyone else and wasn't afraid to be himself! I hope you have this quality and are always yourself! Your dad left an amazing legacy that you should always be proud of! I have to add please always remeber how blessed you are to have such a strong mother. When your dad got sick, is when I had the opportunity to meet her. She was and IS so amazing! She was by his side every step of the way and continued to be the best mom! You were blessed with 2 amazing parents!
Charles (Andy) Ottinger
I hadn't kept up very well with Kris over the years since I moved away from Fayetteville but he reached out in late 2017 and said he and Dez were planning to come out to Colorado for a vacation and I was so excited that he wanted to meet up. Kris and Dez are a lot like my wife and I and we all got along so well and had a great weekend, catching a Nuggets game and an Avalanche game, and they also took a trip to the mountains to see what Colorado is all about. It was amazing how we fell right back into our college personalities, making quips and using wordplay in every sentence. Today is Felix's second birthday and as you grow up Felix I hope you can feel the love that everyone had for your dad. How he was a unique person who had an incredible memory, not just for the classics and for quiz bowl knowledge, but also for his friends and family. Once you were a friend of Kris's, you were a friend for life.
Megan Evans




Molly Miller
Hi sweet Felix! I write these memories about your dad on your 2nd birthday. May you read through the memory book your mom made for you and know how much your dad meant to so many. As a kid, I always thought of Kris as one of my cousins that was so much older than me. However now that I am older, the age gap doesn't seem quite as big as it did when I was 10 and he was 16. I always thought of him as being so smart and relatively quiet as compared to some at all of our family get togethers. I don't know why some memories stick out more than others, but I particularly remember him taking a nap in our grandma's blue recliner one day after a holiday meal. He was stretched out so long! I have no idea why I remember this! I also remember how he was always switching what he was going to do as a career. I guess these are things I later learn you get bombarded with at family events (haha) There is no doubt be a ended up in the right career as a nurse. Another memory I have is going to Barnes and Noble one night and seeing Kris. I had ordered a drink from Starbucks and he yelled something to me. I didn't even recognize him because he had so much facial hair! I remember he scared me so bad. This was the first time I even knew he had a girlfriend. That girlfriend turned out to be your awesome mom. I remember they were sitting at a table for two. I remember thinking she was beautiful! I think I went home and told everyone how surprised I was Kris had a girlfriend! (Not because I didn't think he could get one, but I really was surprised just because I don't remember him ever bringing girls to our holiday events!) Another thing that almost goes without saying is, I think your dad loves to say random, off the wall, things. I was babysitting Neely and Lela while your Amanda was out of town. They came to stay at your grandparents house. I was in college so I must have been 21 or 22. Kris came in from work and he had his scrubs on. He was picking up some of his mail I think. He was making small talk and then randomly asked if I had ever been drunk (hahaha) so random! I will never forget him asking that and me thinking "what in the world?!" I knew he was just trying to mess with me, and his goal was accomplished. Felix, I know Kris carries on through you. I can't wait to hear stories about you that others see Kris in. You are so loved. Your momma is amazing. We are so thankful she is our family. Happy Birthday sweet boy. With love, Molly
Caleb Stein




When I think about Kris, what comes most immediately to mind are his unique qualities and fascinations. Kris was incredibly gifted and so passionate about his many interests including old music, unique movies, and of course the classics. When I first met Kris, he was so deeply passionate about Greek history that I will always associate so much of it with him. In particular, I remember Kris detailing one of his favorite moments from the battle of Thermopylae, where Greek forces, significantly outnumbered by Persian opposition, defended a narrow pass. When the Persians threatened to barrage the Greeks with countless arrows, the Greeks responded: ‘We will fight in the shade'. Kris loved that line. Another curios obsession I recall is how deeply Kris was gripped by Snake in his early college days. As others were getting newer and newer phones, I remember Kris holding onto his aging phone primarily because Snake was simply better on it, according to him. Little things like that always stuck with me. I will miss Kris and am saddened by his passing. I will miss the time shared with him. His capacity to reach out and engage anyone in any setting was perhaps his greatest quality. There were no strangers to Kris, only those he had not said hello to yet. Attached are a pair of pictures from fall of 2015, the beginning (2003) and end of undergrad (2008).
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