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Jim Hauser
Kate Hunter
May 25th, 1940 - July 18th, 2020
May 25th, 1940 - July 18th, 2020
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Sue Ann Allen
Oh, my! I've been out of touch and just found this information on Kate's death. I have a little piece to add to her life story that I don't see mentioned in her obituary. She was the ringleader in a small group of mediators who revived the Mediation Consortium of Washington State (now Washington Mediation Association) in about 1983 or 1984, when we arrived at the fledgling organization's annual meeting to find that no Board members even showed up. Kate became the President, others of us served on the Board, and she remained active in leadership roles in it for many years. I just wrote Kate an email in the last few days, trying to reconnect. Here's most of it: Hi Kate, Martha Dilts gave me your contact information a few years ago, and I have been negligent about following up-though always intending to. Martha said that you and Jim are still on Vashon. Richard and I still live in the house in Madrona that we moved into in 1982. We raised our kids here, and they are-finally-all out and independent and the house is way too big for us, so we will probably downsize in the next few years. I retired from the Dispute Resolution Center of King County (the nonprofit) in 2015. Of the many mediators and trainers I knew back in the 80s and 90s and among those of us involved in the Mediation Consortium of Washington State and later the Washington Mediation Association, most left the field or branched out into related communication and interpersonal relationship skills work. How about you? I hope you continued to find meaningful ways to use your many talents! As I recall, I first met you when you were the director of the University YWCA and I attended workshops/support group for people job-hunting. That would have been in 1981. You and I sometimes went for a swim in the ship canal after the session! Did you know Martha back then?? Maybe you are the one who connected me with her. I did an information interview with her, and later she had a job opening and I was hired. I worked at Seattle Emergency Housing Service from 1982-88, when I was hired by the Dispute Resolution Center of King County. I had taken mediation training and got involved with the MCWS during the time I worked for Martha. I also was recently contacted by WMA, and they are looking for one of us "oldies," who was involved in the early days, for a panel for their fall conference. I'm going to be traveling in Madagascar then. Maybe you would be interested or would have an idea of someone else who might be. It's so sad to hear this news of her death! She enriched the world through her personal connections and her generous community involvement. I trust she is missed and remembered by many.
Tacoma Friends Meeting
Jim, this is for you - I never got to know Kate and I've only met you a few times. But, I can tell from her goodbye video that she was much loved and I imagine you consider yourself a lucky man. You have loved and been loved by a special woman. May her memory and continuing love bring you comfort every day. In Peace, Verna Lilly Tacoma Friends Meeting
Perry Reeve






It's been three months and Chris continues to feed and entertain us! Jim is busy building a unique deck and welcoming visitors!!!
birdlynn
What a beautiful woman and family. A blessing to watch her last hour with her family and friends...I am in awe of her, and her graceful courage to the end in the company of her true loved ones and friends. Truly a good and gifted life she had and a bright light to others. I can see that her name and light will always shine brightly.
Michelle M
The biggest thing I want to convey in this letter is how much Kate lives on in me, and my boundless gratitude for her! I feel so lucky to have had someone in my life who played the role of "oh, I want to be like her!" And that feeling grew and grew, especially as I became invited to come up and spend the weekend as a guest, attend the families Thanksgiving, and be a part of Kate's life, and of course, Jim's too. I met her through the Vashon Islanders for peace group when I lived there in 2005/06. I was 22 and 23 at the time. I think I was especially drawn to her fiery passion, and the way she connected to others. She had a way of making people in the community feel like family. I was so thankful to be included in that! When I moved to Olympia to go to college at the age of 23, her mentorship took on a new role. It was my third attempt at college, and I felt very excited but also intimidated. It was so nourishing to have a place to go visit where I felt loved and cared for. And, she, Jim, and I would talk- "what are you studying? What are you learning?" And we talk in depth, and my interest in my studies would grow. And she was full of resources! When I took a grant writing class and had to write a "pretend" grant, she connected me with the Sunrise Ridge crew and I was able to learn about grant writing by talking to actual people who are doing a meaningful project. She had years of experience and the wisdom. But she was human, too. She told me about the time she took a philosophy class and absolutely did not understand it. And her father was a philosophy professor. She said her at one point she put her head down on the desk, and wondered if her professor felt sorry for her because she got a good grade. I always felt deeply respected and encouraged by her. Both she and Jim had such a huge influence on who I am today! I followed in Kate's footsteps, too. Now in Maine I have previously worked for four and a half years doing restorative justice work with incarcerated men. Kate sent me the training she developed with Jim for parole officers and probation officers, they were "H & H Consultants." Now I am an advocate at a domestic violence shelter and tend to the helpline. As I finished my last year of Graduate School my heart is so full and thankful for everything I am today. I also really feel I have found my place. Now I have found a home in small nonprofits doing social justice work. One thing I love about Kate, she was so confident and unshakable in her sense of justice! As I do this work, I know she has paved the way for it to be done. An I have adopted her sense of bravery and confidence. Another big way I have been influenced by Kate is the way she was in community. When we'd go out together she would say hello to everyone and chat for awhile. She was exceptionally great at loving people, and having good relationships. And so very connected and involved. As she bravely fought her cancer for 10 years, I had a sense that it was her connection to others that kept her going. She always will be a loved, valued person in the Vashon community. She also really, really loved her family! And me, I feel lucky to know some of you. I still know how to chop vegetables with my left fingers curled thanks to Chris. If it weren't for him I had probably had needed to go to the emergency room for stitches! I think of Kate often. When going for walks. Picking berries. When I eat food grown in my garden. When I walk around town running into people I know and say hello. When I set up the angel chimes candle at Christmas time (the first time I ever put one of those together was with Clay). And when I sit down to read and remember to turn a nearby light on because it's better for my eyes. And when I get excited about learning something new. I feel so lucky to have returned for a visit last summer after nine years away from the Pacific Northwest. Kate and I had adventures gardening, berry-picking, and cooking adventures, And the three of us sat in the park and watched the children play, played non-competitive scrabble, had fun conversations about all sorts of interesting things, and agreed on politics (as usual). My wishes are for her family and community to have the healing that comes with the passing of time. I know everyone has their own "how-Kate-changed-my-life" story. And I imagine that the thing she would want us to do is live our lives in those fiercely good ways in her memory.
Nancy Eister
Kate became a friend through Free Range Folk Choir. She had a lovely voice, loved to sing with others, and showed such joy in participating. Kate was all about community. She constantly made new friends and invited people into her life. She was a woman of strong opinions, a true gadfly - she would bristle at injustices and freely share her views and calls to action. In our last four years together, we carpooled and were privileged to know Kate in her reflective moments, her tender side. She adored Jim, loved her garden, her walks, her Scrabble games and dinners. She truly did love her life. I am so glad we got to share a bit of it with her. I'm glad she knew her death was approaching and had some time to share her last thoughts and feelings. That is true courage and grace. Goodbye, Kate Hunter, you are one in a million! Larry and I will never forget you.
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