Kate Hunter

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Kate Hunter

May 25th, 1940 - July 18th, 2020

May 25th, 1940 - July 18th, 2020

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Kate Hunter was born 25 May 1940 in Berkeley, California to Henry David Aiken and Jean Scott Aiken. She died July 18, 2020 after 10 years living with cancer. With Kate still an infant the family moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts where Henry enjoyed a long career as a professor of philosophy at Harvard. His successes did not, however, include marriage and the divorce brought Jean, Kate and baby sister Perry to Portland and then, on Jean's remarriage to Paul Coughlin, to Seattle's Ballard neighborhood. Kate considered Ballard her home, which came in handy 25 years later when we met; I was born in Ballard; falling love with Kate seemed like finding a childhood sweetheart. At Ballard High School Kate was on the debate team (and anyone who has discussed political issues with her will recognize that); was Queen of the May, and also women's long shot basketball champion. The basketball connection caught the interest of Pat Hunter, a player on the boy's team. In their first year at the University of Washington they were married and had a son, Christopher Michael Hunter in September 1960. In the spirit of the 60's, Pat eventually left to join Ken Kesey and the Merry Pranksters in Eugene, Oregon. Kate and Chris stayed in Seattle while Kate finished her teaching degree and took employment as a high school English teacher in Snohomish, Washington. She assigned Steinbeck's "Grapes of Wrath" and was reprimanded for it. "We only allow our children to read ‘The Red Pony'." She left Snohomish and taught first at the Evergreen School for Gifted Children and then opened her own alternative school,"The Open Environment." It closed after a year and in 1968 Kate cashed in her small retirement account, packed Chris a pack and flew to Greece. Besides showing Chris the Acropolis and besides sleeping on many beaches, she met her sister Perry in Tunesia and the three of them hitchhiked across Algeria to Morocco. (Yup,, two young women and an 8 year old!) Returning to the US in the Fall with no money she got a Head Start position in East Orange, New Jersey as a community organizer. When the school attempted to fire an old and beloved cook, Kate organized the mothers to resist. They saved the cook's job. The mother Kate groomed as leader soon left welfare, went to college, graduated, got a masters degree and returned to East Orange as a regional Head Start director. Now with enough money Kate returned to Seattle in 1970. She participated in the founding days of the Central Coop (now Madison Market) on Capitol Hill and worked at the coop restaurant "Soup and Salad" in the Pike Place Market. Encountering women fleeing abusive homes, she founded "Save Our Sisters" which consisted of Kate's phone number and a list of nearby homes willing to take in women fleeing domestic violence. She became program director for the West Seattle YWCA infusing the programs with feminist ideas. But it was her refusal to serve heavily sugared cold cereal to the children that got her fired in 1975. In the early 1970's Kate was also an active supporter of Group Health's Women's Caucus which succeeded in getting the cooperative to cover contraception and abortion for the first time. In 1973 she met and fell in love with Jim Hauser, a social studies teacher in the Bellevue School District. After nine years of living together according to contracts they wrote themselves, Jim and Kate were married "after the manner of Friends" (Quakers) in 1982 and joined University Meeting of the Society of Friends. Undeterred by her experience at the West Seattle YWCA, Kate became director of the University of Washington YWCA. Over those years the UW YWCA nurtured and spun off several important women's programs: Rape Relief, The Lesbian Resource Center; The NW Women's Law Center, an Abortion Referral Service; a Women in the Trades program, and a Gallery for women's art. (Yup, all in the early 1970s.) She enrolled at Seattle University's Master of Public Administration program graduating in 1982. After a long stint at the UW YWCA she became director of the Victim-Offender Reconciliation Program, a program which worked with juvenile offenders in King County. After a juvenile had been found guilty and before sentencing, the program offered the juvenile a chance for structured meetings with their victim(s) to work out a restitution agreement. If successful the agreement would be presented to the judge who could order it as the sentence. The recidivism rate for her program was much, much lower than for those sentenced in the standard way. In 1989 Kate and Jim moved to Vashon and lived happily ever after. During those 30 years on Vashon Kate helped with Vashon House Hold, Islanders for Peace (to oppose the US invasion of Iraq), helped with programming Sunrise Ridge as Granny's Attic moved out, worked to get CHI Franciscan to guarantee full reproductive rights when they took over the management of the clinic, and she helped serve dinners to the homeless. She spent most summers cruising the Salish Sea in their sailboat. She and Jim also traveled to France, Alaska, Mexico, Hawaii, Canada, and many parts of the United States. She loved Vashon Island: she loved gardening, concerts in the park, theater and the arts, subscription farms, all children who skipped as they walked, the Halloween costume parade uptown, and Saturday Market. In her final hours she thanked this wonderful island community. Kate leaves her husband Jim Hauser (he kept his name when they married); her son Christopher; siblings Chris Aiken, David Aiken, Scott Coughlin, Joan Patrick,Perry Reeve and Paola Tayvah; and two grandsons Nico Tobias and Clay Hunter Douglas. In lieu of flowers, please work for or make donations to a good cause of your choice and do a random act of kindness.

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Sue Ann Allen

Oh, my! I've been out of touch and just found this information on Kate's death. I have a little piece to add to her life story that I don't see mentioned in her obituary. She was the ringleader in a small group of mediators who revived the Mediation Consortium of Washington State (now Washington Mediation Association) in about 1983 or 1984, when we arrived at the fledgling organization's annual meeting to find that no Board members even showed up. Kate became the President, others of us served on the Board, and she remained active in leadership roles in it for many years. I just wrote Kate an email in the last few days, trying to reconnect. Here's most of it: Hi Kate, Martha Dilts gave me your contact information a few years ago, and I have been negligent about following up-though always intending to. Martha said that you and Jim are still on Vashon. Richard and I still live in the house in Madrona that we moved into in 1982. We raised our kids here, and they are-finally-all out and independent and the house is way too big for us, so we will probably downsize in the next few years. I retired from the Dispute Resolution Center of King County (the nonprofit) in 2015. Of the many mediators and trainers I knew back in the 80s and 90s and among those of us involved in the Mediation Consortium of Washington State and later the Washington Mediation Association, most left the field or branched out into related communication and interpersonal relationship skills work. How about you? I hope you continued to find meaningful ways to use your many talents! As I recall, I first met you when you were the director of the University YWCA and I attended workshops/support group for people job-hunting. That would have been in 1981. You and I sometimes went for a swim in the ship canal after the session! Did you know Martha back then?? Maybe you are the one who connected me with her. I did an information interview with her, and later she had a job opening and I was hired. I worked at Seattle Emergency Housing Service from 1982-88, when I was hired by the Dispute Resolution Center of King County. I had taken mediation training and got involved with the MCWS during the time I worked for Martha. I also was recently contacted by WMA, and they are looking for one of us "oldies," who was involved in the early days, for a panel for their fall conference. I'm going to be traveling in Madagascar then. Maybe you would be interested or would have an idea of someone else who might be. It's so sad to hear this news of her death! She enriched the world through her personal connections and her generous community involvement. I trust she is missed and remembered by many.

Published July 7th, 2023
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Tacoma Friends Meeting

Jim, this is for you - I never got to know Kate and I've only met you a few times. But, I can tell from her goodbye video that she was much loved and I imagine you consider yourself a lucky man. You have loved and been loved by a special woman. May her memory and continuing love bring you comfort every day. In Peace, Verna Lilly Tacoma Friends Meeting

Published November 8th, 2020
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Perry Reeve

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It's been three months and Chris continues to feed and entertain us! Jim is busy building a unique deck and welcoming visitors!!!

Published October 18th, 2020
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birdlynn

What a beautiful woman and family. A blessing to watch her last hour with her family and friends...I am in awe of her, and her graceful courage to the end in the company of her true loved ones and friends. Truly a good and gifted life she had and a bright light to others. I can see that her name and light will always shine brightly.

Published July 15th, 2021
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Michelle M

The biggest thing I want to convey in this letter is how much Kate lives on in me, and my boundless gratitude for her! I feel so lucky to have had someone in my life who played the role of "oh, I want to be like her!" And that feeling grew and grew, especially as I became invited to come up and spend the weekend as a guest, attend the families Thanksgiving, and be a part of Kate's life, and of course, Jim's too. I met her through the Vashon Islanders for peace group when I lived there in 2005/06. I was 22 and 23 at the time. I think I was especially drawn to her fiery passion, and the way she connected to others. She had a way of making people in the community feel like family. I was so thankful to be included in that! When I moved to Olympia to go to college at the age of 23, her mentorship took on a new role. It was my third attempt at college, and I felt very excited but also intimidated. It was so nourishing to have a place to go visit where I felt loved and cared for. And, she, Jim, and I would talk- "what are you studying? What are you learning?" And we talk in depth, and my interest in my studies would grow. And she was full of resources! When I took a grant writing class and had to write a "pretend" grant, she connected me with the Sunrise Ridge crew and I was able to learn about grant writing by talking to actual people who are doing a meaningful project. She had years of experience and the wisdom. But she was human, too. She told me about the time she took a philosophy class and absolutely did not understand it. And her father was a philosophy professor. She said her at one point she put her head down on the desk, and wondered if her professor felt sorry for her because she got a good grade. I always felt deeply respected and encouraged by her. Both she and Jim had such a huge influence on who I am today! I followed in Kate's footsteps, too. Now in Maine I have previously worked for four and a half years doing restorative justice work with incarcerated men. Kate sent me the training she developed with Jim for parole officers and probation officers, they were "H & H Consultants." Now I am an advocate at a domestic violence shelter and tend to the helpline. As I finished my last year of Graduate School my heart is so full and thankful for everything I am today. I also really feel I have found my place. Now I have found a home in small nonprofits doing social justice work. One thing I love about Kate, she was so confident and unshakable in her sense of justice! As I do this work, I know she has paved the way for it to be done. An I have adopted her sense of bravery and confidence. Another big way I have been influenced by Kate is the way she was in community. When we'd go out together she would say hello to everyone and chat for awhile. She was exceptionally great at loving people, and having good relationships. And so very connected and involved. As she bravely fought her cancer for 10 years, I had a sense that it was her connection to others that kept her going. She always will be a loved, valued person in the Vashon community. She also really, really loved her family! And me, I feel lucky to know some of you. I still know how to chop vegetables with my left fingers curled thanks to Chris. If it weren't for him I had probably had needed to go to the emergency room for stitches! I think of Kate often. When going for walks. Picking berries. When I eat food grown in my garden. When I walk around town running into people I know and say hello. When I set up the angel chimes candle at Christmas time (the first time I ever put one of those together was with Clay). And when I sit down to read and remember to turn a nearby light on because it's better for my eyes. And when I get excited about learning something new. I feel so lucky to have returned for a visit last summer after nine years away from the Pacific Northwest. Kate and I had adventures gardening, berry-picking, and cooking adventures, And the three of us sat in the park and watched the children play, played non-competitive scrabble, had fun conversations about all sorts of interesting things, and agreed on politics (as usual). My wishes are for her family and community to have the healing that comes with the passing of time. I know everyone has their own "how-Kate-changed-my-life" story. And I imagine that the thing she would want us to do is live our lives in those fiercely good ways in her memory.

Published October 24th, 2020
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Nancy Eister

Kate became a friend through Free Range Folk Choir. She had a lovely voice, loved to sing with others, and showed such joy in participating. Kate was all about community. She constantly made new friends and invited people into her life. She was a woman of strong opinions, a true gadfly - she would bristle at injustices and freely share her views and calls to action. In our last four years together, we carpooled and were privileged to know Kate in her reflective moments, her tender side. She adored Jim, loved her garden, her walks, her Scrabble games and dinners. She truly did love her life. I am so glad we got to share a bit of it with her. I'm glad she knew her death was approaching and had some time to share her last thoughts and feelings. That is true courage and grace. Goodbye, Kate Hunter, you are one in a million! Larry and I will never forget you.

Published October 18th, 2020
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