Jay Ellis Thorwaldson

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Jay Ellis Thorwaldson

March 25th, 1940 - February 28th, 2025

March 25th, 1940 - February 28th, 2025

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Susan Frank

Jay had a huge impact on me as a young chamber of commerce CEO in the early 90s. He was equal parts kind and clear about the community I chose as my home base. He knew how to make a point, with warmth and directness. He was a mentor and a friend. He will be missed.

Published October 27th, 2025
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Tyler Hanley

I had the great honor of working with Jay in the editorial department of the Palo Alto Weekly for more than a decade, initially as his assistant, sitting right beside him, absorbing every story and lesson from a true master of the written word. Jay and I grew very close during our time together at the Weekly. He was a patient and proactive mentor, but also an incredible friend. Our tandem in the newsroom earned us comparisons to Gandalf and Frodo. I was heartbroken to learn of his passing, but so thankful to have been able to learn from him and work with him through some of the most rewarding years of my life. You will always be in my heart, Jay. Thank you for your wisdom, your empathy, your generosity and your wit. I'll see you again someday, on the other side of the bridge.

Published July 11th, 2025
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Mamie Gong Poggio

Jay told me once that his surname, Thorwaldson, is of Viking origin. Thorwaldson means son of “Thor” the Viking god of thunder & lightning, and “wald” means wood. So, indeed, Jay was like Thor, a proud Norseman, with a heart of gold. He generously gave of his time and mentored our young adult son in journalism for four years. All the stories he shared with us can fill 1000 pages easily, like reading another epic Lord of the Rings, a beloved book of his as well as ours. He was larger than life. HIs void will be hard to fill as he touched the lives of so many people in so many selfless and immeasurable ways. I hope there will be a celebration of his life in Palo Alto after his passing so we can all honor him….a benevolent giant among us. He will be deeply missed.

Published March 15th, 2025
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Ned MacKay

I worked with Jay from 1970 through 1982 at the Palo Alto Times, which morphed into the Peninsula Times-Tribune. He was a terrific reporter, who had Palo Alto city government absolutely wired. I remember that Bob Burgess, the city editor, would occasionally say that the paper needed a front page local story that day. Jay would phone around to his contacts for comment on some hot local issue, and invariably come up with a lead story. When the Chicago Tribune bought Peninsula Newspapers, Dave Burgin was hired as the new editor. Burgin was turbulent and controversial. In a display of real fortitude, Jay wrote a letter to the publisher detailing his concerns. In response, Jay was made the newspaper ombudsman, charged with critiquing coverage and responding to complaints. Outside work, Jay organized excursions to Midpeninsula open space under the aegis of the "Downhill Hiking Club." I also remember at least one backpack trip into the Dinkey Lakes Wilderness, which quickly became instead a convivial beer-fueled gathering around the barbecue at Jay's family cabin on the shores of Shaver Lake. I was fortunate enough to keep in occasional contact with Jay after we both left the paper. I was privileged to know him. I'll miss him and I wish his family all the best.

Published July 28th, 2025
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Andy Poggio

Jay and I met when he was covering Palo Alto city council meetings and a group of us was trying to convince the city to provide fiber to the home internet service. He always asked good questions and reported succinctly and accurately. When my son took an interest in journalism, Jay was the first person I thought of to ask for advice. Not only did Jay offer advice, he mentored my son in journalism for some years. I cannot tell you how valuable this was and how much I appreciate it. I knew Jay was involved in Peninsula open space but didn't realize until recently how instrumental he was in creating our open space, so very much appreciated by all. His career and personal interests indicate was a Renaissance man Jay was -- he is irreplaceable but leaves a lasting legacy and happy memories for so many of us.

Published March 15th, 2025
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Alice Schaffer Smith

When I return to Palo Alto after 22 years in England, I went to a city Council meeting. Jay was there. We started to chat and he said I need must write an article for the Weekly to tell us what it’s like after 22 years to return tonPalo Alto. And he labeled me Mrs. Rip van Winkle. I in fact wrote the article. Jay and I had been friends for many years; he will be missed. He made a major contribution to all of us with his efforts to save Bair Island and the creation of the open space district.

Published March 14th, 2025
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