Janice Cutler

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Janice Cutler

February 20th, 1947 - September 7th, 2020

February 20th, 1947 - September 7th, 2020

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Janice Lynn Cutler (nee Gray) passed away at home on September 7, 2020. She was 73. Jan was born on February 20, 1947 to John and Irene Gray in Spokane, WA. She spent the first part of childhood among snowy winters and moved to the San Fernando Valley at 12. Here, she met her life-long best friend Debra Mipos and she was happy to never relocate from warm weather again. She graduated from San Fernando State College with a Bachelor's Degree in Sociology in 1969. She married David Cutler in 1972 and their elder daughter was born in 1978. In 1981, the family relocated from the Los Angeles area to Orcutt where their younger daughter was born in 1983. Jan and Dave lived in the same home ever since, where many creative kids' birthdays, warm cozy Christmases, and lively book group discussions have been enjoyed. Jan and Dave took every opportunity to dance, from weddings to cover bands in the park. She ran the household, cooking every meal and packing every lunch. She kept the books, the calendar, and more photo albums than both closets can hold. She volunteered so much of her time and taught us all by example to live in service to things you value and people you care about. She advocated for women's equality and education, literacy, and libraries. She loved chocolate, and books, and got to meet her grandchildren and we are all so grateful. Jan was an active member of AAUW, serving as President in 1990, and in many other roles over the last 20 years including Public Policy Chair, Legal Advocacy Fund Chair, Tech Trek Chair, Friendship Chair, and Evening Book Club Chair, always advocating for women's equality and education for women and girls. She was an integral member of the Friends of the Orcutt Library, supporting the local branches and literacy advocacy, as well as helping launch the new Old Orcutt location. Annually, she interviewed college-bound students for the Scholarship Foundation of Santa Barbara. Most recently she was a volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, and the Food Bank, and she made a new social home at the Oasis Senior Center. She worked as a teacher's aide in the SMBSD at both Battles and Miller schools between 1989 and 2010, leading the youngest students in reading and language skills. She was a worrier who always stayed calm. A bit of a pessimist who smiled and laughed a lot. She thought she was shy, but collected a wealth of great friends. She was frugal but never suggested we not exchange plenty of gifts at the holidays. She collected pictures of doors, and Santas, and kept a handwritten address book by the phone. She wrote notes about each novel she read, but kept only a select few books on her shelves, many of which she re-read these past few months. She was patient, sincere, and a great hugger. Jan is survived by her husband David of 47 years, their children Chelsea (Lee) and Megan (Fabian) and her new grandchildren Colbie (17 mo) and Elliot (4 mo), as well as her siblings Michael, Marla, and Jeff, and many wonderful nieces and nephews.

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Rosemarie Hunter

Thank you for sharing these beautiful pictures and memories of Jan. Her warm and vibrant smile says it all!! She loved life and she was a pioneer in fighting for justice and for women. She shared her love of reading and history with her friends. She was loved by many because of her strong friendship and love! I will miss you dear friend. Love, Rosey, Paul, Abby and James

Published October 13th, 2020
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debra mipos

I first met Janice in the 8th grade. She was shy. I don't really remember how we started but we hit it off. She was one of the few girls who was smart and intellectually curious and not afraid to show it. She was full grown at 13 and I looked like I was 9. then my growth spurt took off and our families called us Mutt and Jeff. I was 5 feet 9 inches at my tallest. We spent many a Friday night together pondering the meaning of life, what should we do when we grew up, consoling each other that we didn't have a date. We were kind of inseparable. She was funny too. Once in class a teacher called on another girl named Janice. She said which one. He said there is only one. I said Mr Smith what about Janice Gray? Jan wanted me to let it go but I wouldn't. He apologized immediately. She was my go to literary critic. She recommended many good reads She has helped me through every crisis. I ran every important decision by her. She had a much more analytical mind than I do. I miss her so much. We loved to take our road trips together. We always had a great time, saw cool art, ate lots, and talked forever.

Published October 3rd, 2020
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Andrea Fischer-Ortiz

Jan and Dan have been my neighbors for almost 30 years. There were many years we only said hello in passing. An election sign changed all that. I can't remember who got the sign first. Jan may have had it on her lawn first, or I may have had it on my lawn first. I do know that I was sooooo happy to find like-minded (enlightened, educated, sane🤪) individuals in my neck of the woods! One of us asked the other, "Where did you get that sign, and can you get me one?" From then on it as so nice to drive home and see the, seemed like, only two Obama signs in all of the area. From then on we said more than the occasional hello. I found that two of the nicest people live across from me. I came to learn that Jan had a quiet presence and humor that was really nice to be around. In her quiet way Jan led me to understand that she was making a conscious choice to have this second round of cancer on her terms. I watched the ravages that cancer treatment does to a person when my parents died from it and so understood her choice completely. Jan's bravery and complete trust in God and His plan for her was evident in the way she choose to die. I think we barely spoke two words about religion, but her words and actions showed a path to emulate while living and while dying. I am so lucky to have such a wonderful person as a neighbor. One more thing: Jan loved her family! She was so excited to become a grandmother and so proud of her two daughters. May the knowledge that your wife/mother/ grandmother is still close, just in another form, help you with the sorrow of your loss. I will always think of Jan when I drive out to start the day. Andrea Ortiz

Published October 3rd, 2020
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Chelsea Keenan

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Thank you, Jeni Olivera, for sending me these!

Published October 5th, 2020
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Sandra Boyd

To know Jan was to be her friend. She had intelligence, compassion, and humor. I first met her in AAUW in the 80s. Then we lost touch for many years. In the last few years, we would run into each other at OASIS Senior Center (where she sometimes led exercises), the Painted Chair fundraiser for the Santa Maria Public Library (where she volunteered to sell tickets). When I rejoined AAUW a couple of years ago, she was one of the first to extend a warm welcome. We both belonged to a non-fiction book club, and I always appreciated her insights into whatever we were reading. She was so kind. I will miss her.

Published October 3rd, 2020
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Cathleen Kromer

Jan was member of the Friends of the Orcutt Library when I was employed there in 2008. Her kind words, support and encouragement were instrumental in helping me to transition into my new position. Through the years we had some wonderful conversations. We learned that we both loved dark chocolate which started many years of sharing our favorites. In 2016 Jan and many others ( including Lynne Turner and Lynda Snodgrass) met in my garage to make signs for the First Women's March. Jan, Lynda, Lynn and myself rode together to the March in San Luis Obispo. It was a day filled with camaraderie, hope and enough rain to make the ink on our signs bleed. But we had our pink hats and marched on. Afterward we went to lunch and soon after our Pink Hat Ladies group was formed. We met once a month at Panera Bread. It became a sacred space to be who we are and share our hopes, fears and joys and laughter, we shared so much laughter. Jan will always have a sacred space in my heart. Cathleen

Published October 3rd, 2020
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