James Jay Russell

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James Jay Russell

August 7th, 1938 - October 11th, 2021

August 7th, 1938 - October 11th, 2021

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James H. Russell (Jay) was born in the mine hospital in Tererro, NM. He spent the summers of his early life in the Holy Ghost Canyon in the Pecos River Valley. 

Jay loved New Mexico throughout his 83 years and chose to settle in Santa Fe after he graduated from Cornell University, served in the US Army as a First Lieutenant, and graduated from the University of Oklahoma Law School. 

While at Cornell, Jay met and married his forever love, Mary Keating and for 62 years they shared life’s adventures. During his time in the Intelligence Division in the Army, year old daughter Katherine (Kandy) traveled with Jay and Mary being toted around from military base to base. Just before entering law school, son Charles (Chuck) was born and the trek to Norman, Oklahoma and ultimately New Mexico began. 

Before going into private law practice, Jay worked for NM Supreme Court Justice James Compton and Attorney General Dave Norvell. Throughout his years as an attorney Jay made time to give countless volunteer hours to community service. He served on the Board of Directors of the United Way of Santa Fe, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Santa Fe, the Espanola Wildlife Center, the Santa Fe Chapter of the Nature Conservancy, and was a member and officer of Santa Fe Civitans. Caring deeply for the community of Santa Fe, Jay worked on various citizens committees of the City of Santa Fe and contributed to efforts to preserve the original Cross of the Martyrs. He did so much more than what can be put down on paper. 

Over the years Jay’s love of history and New Mexico resulted in frequent trips of discovery and travel throughout the state with the children.  After retirement, Jay and Mary then visited dozens of countries worldwide wrapping up their travels with an African safari and trip to Victoria Falls and Cape Town.  Devoted to Kandy and Chuck, and grandchildren, Rebeca, Thomas and Madeline, Jay and Mary created opportunities for the children to enjoy traveling with them. 

Jay loved animals and they loved him. He also was a gadget-man, acquiring often unique and rather funny items that came on the market. He was an avid reader and sports fan. Jay was a member of the Lobo Club and proud owner of the Green Bay Packers.

During the months before he passed away on October 11th, Jay lived in the Montecito Memory Care Residence, nourished and loved by Montecito caregivers, Hospice providers and CareSource assistants each of whom gave him a quality life until the end. 

He was preceded in death by his parents, James H. Russell and Jean Russell, Sister Jean Finney, Brother Steve Russell, daughter Elizabeth Russell, sister in law Sally Kearing, brother-in-law Yurik Khodjasarian, Jay’s brother-in-law Jim Wilson passed hours after Jay on October 12, 2021.

Jay is survived by his wife, Mary, his daughter, Kandy Licona (Miguel), son, Chuck Russell, sister, Leslie Khodjasarian, and grandchildren, Rebeca Licona, Thomas Russell and Madeline Russell. Thomas and Madeline’s mother Jenny Bickerstaff also survives Jay as does his cousin John Russell, sister in law Kathy Wilson and brothers in law Jim Keating, Bill Finney, and Dee and Mike Nolan and dear family friend Rita Bustos.  The many members of the Russell, Keating, Licona, Wilson and Finney families mourn the loss of Jay’s wit and intelligence. 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Santa Fe Animal Shelter, Autism Speaks or a charity of your choice. 

Memorial Service will be held on November 15, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. Interment to follow at Santa Fe National Cemetery at 12:45 p.m.

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Gene Below Bland

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I knew Mary in elementary school and until college when she went off to Smith and I to Lake Forest college. I was at their wedding in 1958 and saw Mary only once or twice afterwards, when she had a small baby. Would like to be in touch with her!. Picture is of my wedding in 1966.

Published May 26th, 2022
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Jim Glenn

Jay and I were good friends and fraternity brothers at Cornell. After graduation we went our separate ways, until Gwen and I retired and moved to Taos about 14 years ago. We were delighted to look up Jay and Mary in Santa Fe. We enjoyed meeting them to break bread perhaps three or four times a year, thus renewing our friendship. Always optimistic, with a twinkle in his eye and a grin on his face, certainly willing to give a hand, Jay loved being around people and it showed. He had a long and wonderful life full of family and friends. We miss him and know he is in a better place. Jim & Gwen Glenn

Published November 10th, 2021
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Kelly (Keating) Paul

Uncle Jay will be remembered in my heart as a gentle giant. A seemingly quiet man with a perpetual, rather mischievous grin. Gifted with a dry wit, delivered in a slow drawl, he was the epitome of a gentleman to me, his niece Kelly. I am thankful that he gave my Aunt Mary many many years of happiness. May God rest his soul in peace.

Published October 16th, 2021
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Andy Winnegar

Mary so sorry to learn about your loss of Jay. It sounds like you guys really had some great adventures. I am sure you those memories will always be with you. We hope you and your family are able to sped time together sharing and remembering Jay's life. Stay safe. Love Andy & Judy Winnegar

Published November 15th, 2021
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Johanna Fabke

Heartfelt condolences to Mary, her children and grandchildren, and extended family members as they mourn the loss of Jay. Mary and I became close friends as high school classmates and have maintained our friendship ever since. Mary and Jay welcomed me as a guest at their home in Santa Fe. One such occasion is especially memorable because Jay played host to my cognitively disabled son so that Mary and I could attend a performance at the Santa Fe Opera - a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for me. How wonderful that Jay and Mary had 62 years together and shared their gift so generously with so many of us. May Jay rest in well-earned peace.

Published October 17th, 2021
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Gardner Finney

Where to begin? Jay Russell and his family have been friends of ours for my lifetime and before. Numbers of gatherings in the Santa Fe Finney home, or the Russell home (Weekends, Fiestas, Zozobra, and various holidays and celebrations). Lots of great memories of laughter, humor, jokes and stories. Thank you Russell's, for sharing Jay and the fond memories. On behalf of the Sant Fe Finneys, we are thinking about you all and praying for your solace.

Published October 16th, 2021
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