James Refosco

October 16th, 1940 - August 15th, 2020

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James Refosco passed away peacefully on August 15, 2020 In Cambridge md He is survived by his wife of 58 years, Toby Refosco and his brother, Arthur Refosco and his wife, Kathi. His daughters, Deborah Refosco Cline and her husband Jim, Leigh Ann Frasco and her husband Mike, and Kate Refosco. Also survived by his 8 grandchildren, Tiarra, Julia, Vincent, Patrick, John, Koby, Alec and Mariah. He is also survived by his niece and nephews, Angie, Tony and Joe. Jim Refosco was a teacher, football coach and inspiration to his many students, players, friends and family. He coached in Saint Mary’s County, MD; Rahway, NJ; Dover, DE; Cumberland, MD; and Punta Gorda, FL. He retired and moved to Southern Pines, NC and just recently moved to Cambridge, MD. Unfortunately, due to Covid there will be no services.

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Ben Riggi Rhs

My deepest sympathies. Coach Refosco came to RHS, Rahway, NJ as an unknown. I was an OK footballer but I loved the game. Playing with “Duffy, Stueber, Caravella, Hugger and the rest of the Team was a dream come true. Coach Refosco taught us, mentored us and built his team of Indians. The local newspapers called us his “cardiac kids” because we always found a way to win. Our game against Westfield HS was legendary. Westfield tied us! Thank you Coach for helping me build my confidence. Breaking many clip boards over my helmet was a great motivator. LOL. You taught us “teamwork, pride, honor, confidence and to never give up”. You would ask us “are you tired? Well the guy across the line from you is tired too. Who wants it more?” Thank you Coach. You pushed us “mentally, physically and spiritually”. I’ll see you on the other side Coach. Have a clipboard ready for me. We all loved you.

Published November 26th, 2022

Kevin Howard

I met Coach Refosco in the Fall of 1972 and I had the great pleasure of playing on football teams he coached and basketball teams that Coach Art Refosco led during the same period. It's hard to describe the the impact the brothers Refosco had on me, but I hope to have that conversation with Art very soon. I loved those guys and I am grateful for every minute I had with them. It was, to the say the least, priceless. I am profoundly sorry knowing that Jim is gone. I deeply regret not having had one last chance to tell him these things in person. I know what he gave to his players and I can only imagine what he devoted to his family. He was one of the best. Coach Art, if you see this I hope we can talk soon. 3026708398 Sincerely, Kevin Howard

Published September 7th, 2020

John Cline

I remember Pappap teaching me how to play golf when I stayed down at his place in NC. We spent a whole day at the driving range and he made damn sure I could hit a ball straight with out it splicing before we left to head back for dinner. I’ll miss Pappap because he taught me to never quit until I got it right. I’ll always remember golfing with Pappap, it was always a little frustrating but I always left the course having learned something new. Love you Pappap, Love you Grandma

Published August 19th, 2020

Julia Cline

Found this old photo. Thinking about him today ❤️

Published December 16th, 2020

Sherri Wesley Balcomb

So sorry for the loss of Coach. We were just talking a few weeks back reminiscing high school days and Coach’s class ect..Our thoughts and prayers to the family. RIP.

Published August 20th, 2020

Thomas Cline

With sincere sympathy to your extended family. He was held in high regard by those who knew him, and beloved by his family. Our prayers are with the family in this time of need.

Published August 18th, 2020

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