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Katie Latier
Elizabeth BJ Infante
January 21st, 1944 - December 9th, 2020
January 21st, 1944 - December 9th, 2020
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Abbie Pon
Since moving to California and visiting Madison, seeing BJ was something I looked forward to. She was always engaged in what I was up to and we had always had great conversation. When Ardyn and Cole came into the world they also began looking forward to hanging out with BJ on visits as well. She taught them a game for car rides that involved guessing one another's secret animal. The kids are now 9 and 6 and still love to play "BJ's game." She was a staple at the Fayram household growing up, entering often, always completely unannounced, and sitting with us at the kitchen table to chat. My best to everyone who knew and cherished BJ. -Abbie Pon
Carol Tobin
I met BJ at Trinity College where we were classmates. She was always a positive force. What I remember most is her joy in music. She always had a song on her lips. She knew all the lyrics and when something in a conversation would remind her of a song, she would sing a line or two. She was also very interested in ideas and discussing them. I thought people would enjoy seeing her yearbook picture. We stayed together at our last few reunions. The picture is from our 45th. It is hard to think of a world without her in it.
Leora Weitzman
Oh! Yes! I forgot that side of her--Charades! How could I forget Charades?!
Carole Doeppers
Georgie Palmer
We've really lost a shining star with Elizabeth's passing. We were friends at school at the beginning of our friendship, and I remember our regular late Friday afternoon talks when we would discuss kids, lessons and struggles. Elizabeth always took special care with the students she was assigned to and was so smart about coming up with new ways to draw them in. Invariably, suddenly it was dinner time, so we'd track over the Bavaria for Friday night fish. Elizabeth had an ironic sense of humor! I remember movies together that I would have never seen without her, grocery shopping together at Metcalfes, lunches at Nonno's, swapping books, walking in the Arboretum, trying on clothes at Land's End sales, shopping for books and toys for our respective "grands", APT, and long conversations about politics, religion, and "doing the right thing" in situations where the "right thing" was terribly unclear. Elizabeth challenged me to be a bigger, more compassionate person - to think outside the box, and to be braver than I thought I could be. I will miss her.
Katie Latier
For 6 summers Carole Doeppers and I "directed" a summer play with the Fayram and Doepper kids. The kids wrote the plays. BJ was almost always with us and played what we would call ""character" parts. Here are some of the highlights of her acting career. Here are just a couple of BJ's talents, usually as a villain. - Marilyn Fayram
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