Diane Miller

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Diane Miller

May 17th, 1947 - December 11th, 2020

May 17th, 1947 - December 11th, 2020

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Spanish Fork, UT – Diane Kirkham Miller passed away December 11, 2020, after several long months of complications due to multiple surgeries. We are grateful she could come home for her final few hours and be surrounded by family and friends, laughter and tears, and all the noise and love that goes along with being the life of the party.

Diane was born May 17, 1947, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to LaPreal Rich Pugmire Kirkham and ElMoine Woodhouse Kirkham. She spent many summers in Bear Lake with her sister, Kate, and her extensive Pugmire branch of the family. It is where she learned her life-time love for the area, and a dislike for raspberries in any form, other than a fresh-raspberry shake from Bear Lake.

She graduated from Salt Lake City’s East High, class of 1965, and studied at Brigham Young University, originally pursuing a music major as a cellist, but graduating in 1969 with a degree in Elementary Education.

She met her sweetheart, Dennis Ray Miller, when they lived next door to each other on Provo’s University Avenue. She always said she caught his attention by stealing his motorcycle and replacing it with an ironing board. (The motorcycle later took the ironing board’s place in her kitchen.) They married August 11, 1970, in the Salt Lake City Temple and just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary this summer. Diane and Dennis moved to Spanish Fork in 1974 and have been there ever since. They raised their three kids there and Diane was a ‘second mom’ to countless others that they welcomed in the family circle.

Diane taught school for many years, starting with third grade in Goshen, Utah, third and then first grade at Larsen Elementary in Spanish Fork, and was a reading coach/literary specialist for Nebo District. Her love of reading and teaching was made more memorable through her musical talents. She taught many things by setting them to music and playing the ukulele to accompany them. She loved, mentored, and served the many people she taught with, and they became lifelong friends and a huge part of her life.

She loved her Savior, Jesus Christ, and was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She had many callings in the church; one of her favorites was playing piano for Primary. Diane and Dennis also served in the temple for many years, first at the Provo Temple, and then as temple workers at the Payson Temple. She was constantly serving and helping others and was a true example of sharing the Light Of Christ in the lives of those around her.

She loved caffeine-free Diet Coke with a lime, from Sonic, talking with her sister, playing the cello with the Nebo Philharmonic, game nights, lunches out and road trips to St. George with her friends, trips to visit family, and any reason to celebrate. She was a woman of many talents; words cannot encapsulate all she meant and all she gave. Her humor, enthusiasm, generosity, and love were a bright light to many.

She is preceded in death by her parents; and her brother, Gary (Nona Parker) Kirkham. She is survived by her husband, Dennis Ray Miller; her children: Alison (Stanton Matthew) Woods, Todd (Jenny Lee) Miller, Kevin (Becky Shiozawa) Miller; 14 grandchildren; and her sister, Kate (Robert) Christmas.

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Candy Kammerman

So sorry to hear of Diane's passing. As has been mentioned, she was so kind to everyone she met. I enjoyed her friendship in high school and later was pleased to meet and spend time with her sister, Kate. My deepest sympathy and love to her family.

Published January 2nd, 2021
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Debbie May

Debbie May "A best friend gone too soon is a tragedy. But what would have been worse is never to have met her. I am grateful to have been Diane’s friend.” There are so many memories of things we did together, I want to talk about it all, but for now I’ll talk about Diane’s love of music and stage. Almost 20 years ago I told my friends I was going to purchase season tickets to the “Broadway in Utah” shows at Capitol theater. Diane was the friend who jumped at the chance to be a part of that. We saw many shows with her sister Kate and other friends along through the years. I always looked forward to spending those evenings with Diane. She was always the same, upbeat, excited, and fun to be with. It seems Diane was the one who knew details and music for each show. Dinner out ahead of time was almost as important as the show. I’m not sure I had any other friend that enjoyed eating out as much as Diane—and it is funny because she was a very picky eater. Anyone who knew her could anticipate the questions she would ask the waiter before she ordered. This bit of time, of breaking bread, was always fun, but now is precious to me. We were headed to the theater, something we both loved, but it was this time, over dinner, when I was able to catch up with her about kids, grandkids, and other parts of her life. She always had a story to tell, and pictures to show, about her kids or grandkids. Afterwards, on the way home, we discussed what we liked and disliked about the show. Maybe one time in all those years was there a show Diane didn't like. She loved music and good theater. Diane was a wonderful musician—she sang, she played instruments, and made up such fun little ditties for the students and teachers she taught! It was her, really, that held the closest bond with those on stage. It was fun to tap our toes, and hum along—Diane always perfectly in tune. I’ll lever attend a performance again without thinking of all the shows we saw, songs we heard and fun we had. I’ll miss you my friend. The song has ended but the melody lingers on. . . . Irving Berlin.

Published December 25th, 2020
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Jan Harrison

From Natalie, Tiffany and Bryan Alder (Jan’s kids) My children all went to primary and MIA in the Spanish Fork 14th ward. They remember how fun it was to walk down center street on the 24th of July for the children’s parade with our ward. Tiffany and Bryan remember going to Glades for sodas in Diane’s lemon-lime colored van. All the kids remember the “No Bears Picnic” at Aunt Kate’s house in Springville. Diane made a scavenger hunt with clues for all the kids. It was such a fun way to welcome in spring. Natalie and Melanie sang with the Utah Valley Children’s Choir with the Miller kids. Tiffany reminded me of going to Springville to feed Kate’s cats. While on the ride to Springville I started into labor with Tiffany. We did make it home and to the hospital in Payson where she was born. This was in 1983. We all have so many memories of the wonderful person she was. She will be greatly missed. All our love, The Alder kids.

Published December 25th, 2020
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Karalee Beckstead

Diane was my friend. We worked together at Larsen. We went to lunch as often as we could. She was always excited to share pictures of her family with me, and she always remembered my family. Diane always had the latest flavor of M & Ms to share with us. Diane was always smiling and laughing and always made you feel better after being around her. I will love you forever my friend. ❤️

Published December 28th, 2020
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Susan Cloward

My Memories of Diane Miller Susan Cloward Being a first-grade teacher myself, I first became acquainted with Diane at district trainings and workshops. She was the person you wanted to get to know because she was happy and fun to be around. Later, when we both became Literacy Specialists, I shared an office with her. Diane was the treat lady. She always had a full bowl of candy on her desk. One of the things that Diane was constantly researching was the newest candy on the shelf and wanted her friends to sample the results of her finds. Even my children remember Diane as my friend with the good candy. Diane quickly became a friend I liked to see outside of the workplace. She kept in touch by planning times to meet for lunch. I don’t know what I would have done without these visits after my husband passed away. She took good care of me. Diane was also diligent in her research of good places to eat – especially those serving Mexican food. Diane never forgot my birthday. That was another reason to go to lunch. She often made a party of it by inviting other friends. Diane was a reader. Talking about books with her is something I will miss. It was thrilling to be in a book club with her because we really did discuss the books. Being invited to stay with Kate in Tocqueville was a special memory. Besides eating out, seeing a play, eating out and reading, we spent time playing games. Diane was good at games and I don’t think I ever beat her. She was serious about playing games! I will miss my friend. She taught me so much and I’m very thankful for the blessing of knowing her. I think I am a better person because of it and will try to continue being the kind of person Diane would want me to be. I think Thoreau said it best when he said, “On the death of a friend, we should consider that the fates through confidence have devolved on us the task of a double living, that we have henceforth to fulfill the promise of our friend's life also, in our own, to the world.”

Published December 25th, 2020
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Jan E. Harrison

A TRIBUTE TO DIANE MILLER by Jan E. Harrison We moved to Spanish Fork in 1977. My oldest girl Melanie was 3 years old and Natalie was 6 months. Before we even got our boxes unpacked. Marcia Nelson was at our front door welcoming us to the neighborhood. We were all in the Spanish Fork 14th ward on the east side of town. It was Marcia who introduced me to Diane and Dennis Miller. For all of us, it was instant friendship. We all had small children. Soon, Diane was called to be the Primary president, Marcia and I were her counselors. I loved working with these two wonderful and fun sisters. Diane was a true and dedicated leader of both children and adults. She taught first grade at Larsen Elementary school in Spanish Fork for years. She was a talented and loving teacher. Diane made everything we did together fun. Our group of friends also included Maureen Hurst. We would go on exciting “girl trips”. Diane always brought games and adventures to keep us going. Diane was a talented musician. She played the piano, the cello, and did the music in primary for many years. Diane and Dennis held many church positions. They served in both the Provo temple and the Payson Utah temple together as temple workers. She was one of those people whose light shined forth from her. My own testimony has grown from being friends with these wonderful ladies. Diane was always thinking of others and doing for others. So many times, she would be taking care of sisters in the ward or enjoying family events with her kids and grandkids. Everyone loved her. She will be greatly missed. We know our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father have welcomed her home with open arms. I’m so thankful for His plan that families can be together forever. As Alison, Todd and Kevin have grown into talented and wonderful adults—it’s her moving on in her children. How grateful I am to be blessed with Diane in my life. Also, I’m blessed with Marcia and Maureen and the great examples they are to me. All my love, Janet E. Harrison

Published December 25th, 2020
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