Alexander Patrick Clewell

April 13th, 2002 - May 22nd, 2020

Memorial

Mementos

Alexander Patrick Clewell was born on April 13th, 2002 to Danielle Chalfant and William Clewell. Alex was a very happy baby, except when hungry. He would pound his high-chair and scream, demanding his meal immediately. His love for good food stayed with him. As a toddler and young child, he was carefree, inquisitive, and accident prone, bumping his head all the way through his pre-adolescence. These were also traits that he never lost. When he entered his pre-teen and early teen years, Alex struggled to find himself, as most people do. He was kind and shy as he searched within for the meaning of things. His body stretched out and his mind expanded as he developed. He became bold, beautiful, and confident. He grew into himself, into the person so many people would come to appreciate and love. This all happened right in front of his family's amazed eyes. He was always fully himself, unapologetically genuine at all times. He could frustrate you and make you proud in the same instant, a very confusing thing for a parent. Alexander grew up in a diverse and supportive family, rich soil for him to flourish. He became even more kind, accepting, compassionate, and overall- Free. This was a frightening and marvelous thing to admire. Our dear son, brother, and friend, of course our hearts are heavy. Of course we will think of what might have been if you would have had more time. Of course we will miss you with all of our hearts for the rest of our lives. But it has been a true privilege and a real honor to raise you and love you these 18 years. I know that you would not want us hurting and limping through our lives, broken by your early departure. It is in your honor son, brother, friend that we will endeavor to live again. You were always prone to accidents, and it was an accident that took you away from us. Knowing this, we will try to be more careful. We will try to be ourselves all the time. We will be open and kind. In this way son, we will keep you with us as we move through our lives. Alexander passed away accidentally at home and in his sleep with his family around him on the evening of May 22nd, 2020. May our love propel him on his journey to the stars.

Events

PAST EVENT

Open Memorial

Jun 6th, 2020

2:00 PM - 5:00 PM

(GMT-7:00) Pacific Time (US and Canada)

Park Ridge Community Church, Maltby Road, Bothell, WA, USA

3805 Maltby Rd, Bothell, WA 98012, USA

Tributes

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Heather McCall

To the Clewell family, I did not know Alex well, but wanted to share this to honor his life today since we are unable to attend his memorial service. Alex was my friend's beloved son, he was in church youth group with my son for several years, and most importantly, he was a beautiful person made in the image of God. My son, Zac, is four years older than Alex so they did not ever really form a friendship, but when I told him that Alex had passed away the first thing he said was ‘oh no, he was so nice.' Even though I didn't have a lot of interaction with Alex, that's something that I keep seeing people write over and over about him, and that's exactly how I remember him: he was nice and kind. Quiet but friendly. I know this is a testament to his mama, my friend, who is also such a kind and empathetic person. I searched through some old photos and found this one to share in case his family hasn't seen it. It was the youth group Christmas party in 2015. He may not be smiling in this photo but I remember seeing his big grin so often at youth group. I am praying today for Alex's family as they honor him. It is hard to comprehend the depth of pain you are feeling, but as a mother of a son, my heart is with you all today. I am praying for you all today and I promise to keep doing it. I know that Jesus knows your sorrow and His love for your family is immense. Love, Heather

Published June 6th, 2020

Kyle Hackett

Alex was a joy to have around and never passed up an opportunity to make people laugh. I enjoyed having Alex in our youth group. You'll be missed bro.

Published June 2nd, 2020

Kristina Crow

Wish i had taken more pictures over the years. Love you Alex, you are so greatly missed.

Published May 29th, 2020

Jeni Hamilton

Alex was like a part of our family at times. He was helpful and kind. He had a great sense of humor and a heart of gold. He and Bailey really made a beautiful couple. We feel his absence from this world on a daily basis. It's really hard to believe he is gone. I keep thinking that I'll see him on his skateboard (it seemed like an extension of him) riding down the hill or hauling the skateboard up the hill. I'll never forget the last time I saw him. It was a nice spring day, Alex and Bailey were walking ( to 7-11 of course 😆) and we passed them in the car. Alex gave us a big wave and his signature grin. I'll always remember Alex with his golden smile. I know I will never forget that smile or this special kid. Our hearts are with Alex, his family, his friends, and all who love him. We ❤️you, Alex.

Published June 3rd, 2020