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Alan Bettes
Col. Ret. Stephen F. Bettes
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Sue Dalelio
I moved into the neighborhood 5 years ago, when Steve was president of the HOA, and he was so kind and helpful. He's always been a good neighbor. Steve was an inspiration to all of us during his battle with cancer and I will miss seeing him. Sue Dalelio
Jong Yoon
Alan I am sorry for your loss. I respect your dad. It is a hard decision for everyone. Quality of Life vs Quantity of Life. Your dad show me that It's Quality, Not Quantity, Of Life That Matters We will miss your dad.
Alan Bettes
The photo you see here is of my Dad wishing my Mom a safe trip back to Korea to see her family about 4 years ago. He was happy to see her off, as she hadn't been back in many years, but you could also tell he was already missing her. Mom gave him a big hug and said "are you going to be OK without me??" They both laughed, touched cheeks, and the memory was made. Dad was a military man, but a gentle one. He cared for his family, his car "trixie", and his craft.
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