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Joanna Komoska
P. Kenneth Komoski
November 20th, 1928 - November 15th, 2017
November 20th, 1928 - November 15th, 2017
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Cathie Mercier & Curt Priest
I used to tell Curt that I needed two days of rest BEFORE Ken came to visit! 29 years his junior, I could barely meet his energy and who could keep up with his never-ending optimism and zest for life, deep-seated faith in the goodness of people? His hawk-like focus asked hard questions and his eyes glimmered with every answer. His questions were so simple: How can we make the world a better place? How can we help all children learn? How can we reach our own potential by serving others? My world's a better place for how Ken challenged the status quo, how he turned every theory of education back to actual practice for the child learner, and how he so often helped me reflect in the smallest, incisive ways about how to give back. Curt and I recall our times with Ken and Joanna as some of the most genuine exchanges between thoughtful, caring, and "wicked smaht" people. We loved visiting them in Southampton, catching a Greek Festival nearby, driving through the North Fork to catch the ferry, sharing great food and music at their home with some of their friends. And what friends they gathered -- it seemed to be a completely different crew every time we visited and I think we visited at least twice a year; did they know everyone on LI? After an overnight on the pull-out in Joanna's office (watch the flushing!, Ken would warn), I often had Ken all to myself over a brief cup of coffee and the Sunday NYT. He was the first to notice when I was one of three of they NYT Best Illustrated Judges-- who else was up closely reading every word of the paper so early in the morning!? We did not linger over the cup of coffee because there was always some place to go. A long walk along the beach, a paddle to the sea, a Quaker meeting, a discussion at EPIE, a site to observe in Riverhead. Curt and Ken matched each other in so many ways -- and the best of their partnership came in the ways they were unalike and true complements. I don't know which of the two could talk more! I do know that Curt learned much from Ken about how to be a friend, a partner, and a better man. Keenly, he watched Ken's relationship with Joanna and I could see him easily bring into our then-very-new relationship some of the daily practices he admired in their relationship: Thanking each other for the small things (emptying the trash or the dishwasher, cooking a great meal, just being there); saying "I love you" early and often and not just in the quiet of each other's embrace; asking "what can I do for you?"; catching the eye for a wink or a smile; stealing a quick hug in front of the refrigerator (were those birds in the freezer?!?); and laughter, ah that liberating laughter that enlivened Ken's face and sang joyfully from his belly. In their household, the quotidian was epic and the epic merely the daily work of human beings. How blessed have we been to know Ken K (and Joanna, too! and dear Mara who welcomed these odd business colleagues of her dad into her teen-age years), how lucky to have loved him, and how wonderful to know that he loved us.
James Schultz
Ken was certainly a very talented instrument in God's Kingdom.
John Botos
The wisest man I have ever met in my life. He was a mentor, a kind soul, and someone who touched my life more than I could have expressed to him. I wish I could go back in time to say thank you for how much you changed my life. You inspired me to become an educator and I never got the chance to tell you. I'm sure you know and are always hearing me when I say your line "the more you learn, the more you earn." I love you Ken!
Bill&todd Jackson
Fond memories of Ken from Peconic Bay Quaker Meeting.We really miss him.
Stan Searl
Ode for Ken Komoski “… be patterns, be examples in all countries, places, islands, nations, wherever you come; that your carriage and life may preach among all sorts of people, and to them. Then you will come to walk cheerfully over the world, answering that of God in every one ….” (George Fox, Journal). Big ideas flowed across the room like being in the midst of hitchhiking through the Universe, something cosmic at work to create learning communities, open to Life Magazine and the young leaders` Big Breakthroughs, automated teaching and field testing with users and learners in Ramallah, Jordan and the Ford Foundation knocked at the door as the McArthur Foundation sang with him oh higher learning skills and computers for the poor and dispossessed Quaker of outsized visions, talking and talking as if the Lord himself spoke right through this body. He remembered Buckminster Fuller, mentor and guide who crossed multiple time zones, traveling in, experimenting with polyphasic sleep, tireless, sleeping as if with the animals to work until tired to allow twenty-two thinking hours a day, leaving at least 270 feet of papers in his Dymaxion Chronofile, what a record, inspired as he did more with less, recycling his life, insisting there’s no energy crisis but a crisis of ignorance. This Quaker singer, jazz bassist, creator of multiple non-profits testified to the Select Committee on Education and the White House Conference on Children how worlds collided, creating new sounds, now improvised, playing in the dark together as the bass strummed in his hands crooning, open to a listening silence then an Adjunct Associate Professor at Columbia University, pushing and afoot with his vision how teaching and learning could lift-up 16,000 school districts, nation-wide dreaming data-banks, evaluations, computer products by the millions. Guided by Dewey himself, unable to stop the pounding, thudding in the heart, he reached into yet another mystery, listening to the bass-strings and their bodily resonance, humming an inward, meditative tune, enthralled by a silent waiting as well, open to reflection, driven by a morning mist out over the Great Peconic Bay, an osprey cried out hunting amid higher order thinking, unbar the doors and let in the Light, teaching and learning and computers unified, a vision of atonement and oneness with all creation. Polymath thinker, remembering Louis Mumford and Bucky Fuller, singing the whole world in his hands, squeezing out juices as he testified at Senate Committees to urge evaluation, focus on users and allow computers to play and sing, such music originating out of sources of Justice and Equality as he placed those Quaker testimonies into action to write songs of joy and loss and sorrow insistent how students and learners carry the answers in their own souls writing out of chaos theory and random numbers atop a vision of direction and hope in the midst of failure and cutting-edge ideas, all mixed-up together in these original songs and dreams. - Stanford Searl from The Cider-Press Man and other North Fork Poems
Sherry K
Ken introduced me to LINCT and Time Dollars, two amazing ideas. Our family was just talking about him the other day, wondering what we could learn from positive implementations of it for use in DC. I'm sorry to hear he is no longer physically with this world.
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