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Niece Jochims
Tom......so deeply sorry for your loss. After viewing the service I am not surprised by all the love Joyce has encountered for the many years. Your love story has been amazing. Mallory..... your must be so proud that your mother was such a beacon of light to so many people.
Britt Aulie
A memory of Joyce…so many. I met Joyce during her and her family's time in El Paso. We were both "ballet moms". At the time I was going to UTEP and working for my cousin. I would take her kids, Mackenzie and Collin to Ballet and Tennis after school and all that entails. I would sit at The Ballet Center and read a book from one of my classes. My solitude did not last long. Joyce had a way of drawing you into conversation. Always interested in what I was reading, she would make inquiries. Eventually, I would not bring my book into the studio. We had developed a friendship, and we would spend the hour talking. On Fridays we would go across to Ardivino's Pizza and have a slice. Joyce would be the first person I would tell I was gay. Outside of the food and gifts that Mallory mentioned, Joyce gave the most precious gift of all- unconditional love and friendship. She held a space for me to be me. Long before we knew what "holding space" was- Joyce allowed me that gift. Many times, I must censor who I am to some degree, because it makes people uncomfortable if you are "too much". But there are a handful of people who I can be ME! Joyce was the first that afforded me that gift and for that I will always be grateful. She and her family would move to Santa Fe and shortly after that I would leave El Paso for Dallas. I would make it out to Santa Fe a few times and she would make it to Dallas. But the visits were too few. Funny how school, saving for a house, saving to go on vaca with a boyfriend will muddle things when you think you have time. I recently moved back to El Paso and after getting fully vaccinated I had discussed with my mother and cousin about a long weekend trip somewhere. Santa Fe was going to be my first destination so I could reconnect. I know that reconnection will still happen, and I know my friend, you are at peace and wearing a pair of fabulous boots. Tom and Mallory to you and your family I send my love and condolences. Joyce is an amazing spirit that touched so many lives, as you know. I am eternally grateful to whatever power caused our paths to cross. I would not be who I am today had she not entered my life when she did and to quote a poem, she gave me- "left footprints on my heart!"
Betsie Weider-Fink
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Rhonda Husak
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Britt Aulie
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