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Edward "Ed" Hans Brendler
April 4th, 1952 - December 4th, 2025
April 4th, 1952 - December 4th, 2025
Edward (Ed) Hans Brendler, age 73, passed away on December 4, 2025, in Olympia, Washington.
Ed was born on April 4, 1952, in Ventura, California to Robert Anton Brendler and Rose Anne (Wilson) Brendler. As he grew older, Ed moved to Denver, Colorado and then to Olympia, Washington, where he spent 20+ years as a resident.
Ed worked in IT, including management, from 1975-2004. He worked for a number of companies including Lockheed Martin and Tricare Insurance. He then shifted gears and returned to Evergreen State College in Olympia with the goal of ultimately working as a Counselor/Psychologist.
Ed graduated from Evergreen State College in Olympia, WA with a BA in Liberal Arts (2007) and MA in Psychology (2012). He then graduated from Antioch University in Seattle, WA with a PsyD Clinical Psychology Degree (2017).
Ed was a kind, funny and smart man who was generous of spirit with his community and clients. He enjoyed working with clients, reading, cooking, and spending time with his friends. He was a member of the American Psychological Association and was active in the Deschutes Psychological Association and International Trauma Treatment.
Ed is proceeded in death by his parents. He leaves behind sisters Sarah Brendler (Rob Lilley), Mary Buckner (James Buckner) and Anna Brendler.
The family will be doing a virtual service for Edward at a later date, yet to be determined. Any donations can be made to outreach.faith (James Martin S.J.) per family’s request.
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Billie
Dearest Ed, So many shared memories. Our neighborhood 1955-1969: moonstroke, stargazing with your dad, Bart's Bookstore in Ojai, dancing and singing in the backyard, church, cruising Friday night in Ventura while listening to music and singing at the top of our lungs, computers in Oxnard, parties in the basement of your parents apartment in Ventura, Evergreen College in Washington, the BestMan at our wedding, visiting in Washington with the beautiful views. I'll love you always, Ed.
Mary Buckner


The Brendler family Mary, Ed, Sarah, Bob (dad), Anna, RoseAnne (Mom) Ed with mother, sisters and female cousins.
San Garascia
I used to joke with Ed about his big IQ being over-shadowed by what we called his EQ (emotional quotient). Whenever I needed advice, Ed gave it willingly and, with that big brain of his, was usually spot on. Whenever I needed support or comfort, Ed seemed to grow broader shoulders and bigger muscles so he could hold me up until I could stand alone. Whenever I became maudlin or overly stressed, Ed would have a joke or silly comment to make me laugh and see the bright side of things. I miss his brilliance, kindness, understanding, sense of humor and love.
Mary Buckner


Ed with sisters Mary and Sarah. Uncle Ed with nephew Brennan, and nieces Robin and Cayley.
Sarah Brendler






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Ed really loved his cats Alf and Zoey. He really missed them when they passed away over the last few years. He also adored his friends and maintained many connections, including some dating back to childhood.
Margo Deegan




Ed was more than a true friend; he was a partner in the journey of life. He was always a safe place to fall and shelter from the storm. I miss you man.
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