"If I were a lighthouse, and you were a ship at sea, I’d shine my light through the night, till you returned to me." -Charles Ghigna
Connor Berkeley Baker, 20, of The Plains, Virginia passed away on January 26 in Richmond, Virginia in the loving embrace of his parents.
From a young age Connor was known for his love of lighthouses, especially the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse in Dare County, North Carolina, where he enjoyed many summer vacations. As he grew, his love of adventure took him farther, to the Caribbean, Italy, England, Scotland, Uganda, and more.
Connor attended Grace Church in The Plains, Virginia where he was baptized and raised. He was an alumnus of Little Graces Preschool, Wakefield Country Day School, and a graduate of Kettle Run High School. Connor was deeply connected to his friends, new and old. He was an animal lover with many pets over the years. He was a sophomore at Virginia Commonwealth University pursuing a degree in criminal justice and he loved exploring Richmond, Virginia.
Connor is survived by his devoted parents, Jon and Kathy Baker; his brother Campbell; his maternal grandparents, Charles and Margaret Trefzger of The Plains, Virginia; his paternal grandparents, Jim and Joan Baker of Fredericksburg, Virginia; and his loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and godparents.
Let us put our hope in the knowledge that Connor is now in the care of his loving and compassionate heavenly father. May the God of peace draw us close as we mourn the loss of this extraordinary, courageous, and deeply loved young man.
Open Vigil
Saturday, 6 February 2021, 12-1pm. Fauquier County Northern Park, outside Marshall Viriginia on Rt 55. Kathryn Phillippe, Rachel Bryant and Lily Shahida are asking everyone to bring a picture of Connor to add to a memoriam board.
Zoom Vigil
Saturday, 6 Februrary 2021, 5pm. Meeting ID: 925 5507 0172, Passcode: connor (case sensitive), https://zoom.us/92555070172.
If you have issues with zoom, please email [email protected], subject: Connor Zoom.
Funeral
Connor's funeral is open to all and will be held at Little Georgetown Cemetary in Broad Run, Virginia, Saturday, 13 February 2021, at 2pm. There may be a short delay since a private family only service will be held at Grace Church prior to his burial.
In lieu of flowers or gifts, donations may be made to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA): https://www.gofundme.com/f/in-memory-of-connor-baker
Check out Connor's photos: https://www.instagram.com/connorbaker777/
Check out Connor's music: https://www.mixcloud.com/connor_baker/
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| Name | Connor Berkeley Baker |
| Date of Birth | December 15th, 2000 |
| Date of Death | January 26th, 2021 |
| Home Town | The Plains, VA, US |
| Other City | Richmond, VA, US |
| Interests | Flying, Travel, Lighthouses, Making music, Animals (Hamster: Pancake, Cat: Smokey) |
| Favourite Saying | Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me. Psalm 23:4, NLT |
| In Memoriam Donation | ASPCA Donations In Memory of Connor Baker |
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| Funeral Home | Moser Funeral Home |
| Cemetery | Little Georgetown Cemetery |
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Broad Run VA United States |
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Family |
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| Siblings | Campbell Baker |
| Parents | Jon Baker, Kathy Baker |
| Grand-Parents | Charles Trefzger, Jim Baker, Joan Baker, Margaret Trefzger |
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| 2017 - 2019 | Kettle Run High School | ||
| 2019 - 2021 | Virginia Commonwealth University | ||
| 2020 - 2021 | Windsor Senior Living | ||
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Kathryn - I wish I had seen this earlier! I’m glad people were able to participate from afar.
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Thank you Lora, we are devastated by the loss of our Connor and appreciate others reaching out. Kathy
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Hey Connor. I love and miss you. I just found this photo when I was going they some old stuff and thought I would share. Thanks for being a great friend to me. You are greatly missed ❤️
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Connor, I miss you every second of every minutes of every hour of every day. We are devastated to be without you baby.
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There are so many people praying for you and who would do anything to lessen your pain if they could. Your loss is like no other and the pain is immeasurable. I have been reading the tributes and it is clear that Connor touched so many lives in powerfully positive and meaningful way. I remember Connor as a little guy. I loved when he came to see me and he will forever have a big place in my heart. I will always see him as he was as a child. He was so very smart and curious. He was unique and even back then you just knew he was destined for greater things. I never was able to have children of my own but Connor helped fill that void. He is a very special person and is loved by so many. I know I have not spoken to you for years but please contact me if there is anything I could possibly help you with. I left other tributes at other locations for Connor but I am not sure you ever saw them.
God Bless you and help turn your sorrow and pain in to love, peace, trust and ultimately joy.
Bess
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Kathy, Jon and Campbell, I had not heard of your loss of Connor until today. I am without words to express my deepest sympathy. I cannot image your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday.
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Connor adopted a hamster fall semester 2020. Hamsters come from ther Syrian desert.
We liked to tease Connor that Pancake the hamster was a Syrian refugee.
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This is Connor's cat Smokey. Smokey is the best cat one could ask for, except he is known to steal chess pieces and knock over his stone hedge model. We found Smokey's stash under a corner of the rug.
This picture was added to Connor's final items.
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Connor-I will miss seeing you and your smile. I had hopped we would have a concert season and we could work together. My love for you and your family during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers for Jon, Kathy and Campbell.
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Kathy, Jon and Campbell,
I am thinking of you all and praying for your family. I was heartbroken to hear of your family’s loss.
I remember Connor coming into the practice and his precious smile.
Your family will remain in my prayers.
Kellie
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Connor had a love of Lighthouses. We had visited many on the east and west coast together.
As a Christmas present, we gave Connor a flight to New Orleans to visit friends.
While there, he found yet another Lighthouse.
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This news breaks my heart and saddens me to the core!
We loved having Connor on our Team here at Barrel Oak!
Bob
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Our dear Connor. Glenn and I will always love you and cherish the impact you had in our lives. From cat cafes in Austin TX to Carlo's Bakery in Hoboken, NJ to sand riding in White Sands, NM to just chilling with you. Glenn and I love you very much.
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Connor's loss is deeply felt by his friends and colleagues at Barrel Oak Winery. We send our deepest condolences to his family and loved ones and we want you to know that Connor always gave his all to be a valuable, hard-working, and kind member of our team and he will be missed. Brian Roeder, proprietor, Barrel Oak.
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Connor's friends and colleagues from Barrel Oak Winery will miss him!
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From Connor’s brief stint as a wedding photographer (for my mom) at age 14. He loved it!
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Connor in the photo booth at our wedding, September 2011. He had so much fun!
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Connor,
One of our trips. NYC to the Statue of Liberty. Many memories made.
I love you always!
Pete
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To the Baker family and all who loved Connor,
Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies.
Michael and Bianca Levy
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Rest easy and in peace young man. In the loving domain of our lord.
Now you are a beacon to the rest of us like the ones you admired.
Love always,. Freddy
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One of our last of many adventures, Connor and I learn about the regions of Scotland and how that makes a difference with Scotch.
Connor purchased a bottle that day that still lies unopened in my rather large whiskey collection. I am still thinking how I can use that to remember him for years to come. Connor, I will miss and love you for the rest of my life.
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I am so thankful to have known Connor. He was one of my best friends and a huge part of my life. We sat together at the lunch table every day in high school, rode the bus together, toured Italy together, and kept in touch all the time. On the night this photo was taken, we went to McDonalds late at night and wore crazy sunglasses through the drive through. This is one of my best memories of him because of how much we laughed and talked about it afterwards. Connor always knew how to make me and everyone around him smile, laugh and feel in good spirits. His amazing personality is one that will never be forgotten. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the Baker family at this time. May you find peace in knowing Connor is watching over us all.
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My thoughts and prayers are with the family and those whose lives have been touched by Connor. This photo was taken in Rome 2016.
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It was a true honor and pleasure to have known Connor. He was such an inspiration.My heart aches for the Baker family. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time
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Connor is and always will be one of my best friends. He was so caring and would always make others happy just by his presence. He never failed to make another person smile or be there when he was needed. He will always be remembered for the amazing person he was.
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The world is a lesser place without you. I remember how much you enjoyed working backstage on our Wakefield theatre productions, your lovely garden, and your thoughtful manner. Sending love and caring to Kathy, Jon, and Campbell. ❤️
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Connor Anna and I on the Nile River. Connor gave me the courage to go half way around the world to see Anna in Uganda . He was the best travel buddy!
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My little brother from another mother - you have and always will be loved and remembered ♥️
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Connor leading the group. Another memorable hike, C & O canal, 22 miles in one day!
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Connor and Jon enjoying the view, 50 mile hiking trip around the mountains of Goshen, VA.
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My heart is breaks to have Connor leave us at such a young age . I have been cutting Connors hair since he was a baby . He is not just another kid that came to get his haircut , Connor was part of my family I watched him grow into an amazing young man . We had many conversations & he always seemed to make me laugh. Connor reminds me so much of his grandfather . A lot of kids came when they were little but decided to go somewere else to get haircuts but not Connor! He has always stuck by me ! He’s so loyal. I will miss all of our precious conversations but will always hold our memories close to my heart . Love you Connor ❤️
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Connor was a big fan of" The Big Bang Theory." We would tell him Ms Laure had all his "haircut records." He refused to let anyone else touch his hair, "it must be Ms Laure" he'd exclaim.
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This photo was taken after the Marshall Christmas Parade (not during it!). I asked Connor if he wanted a photo, this was his pose!
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I met Connor the first day he started at Kettle Run and had the pleasure of showing him around the school. From then on I had the opportunity to spend many memorable moments with him throughout the duration of our high school career. He was a very close friend and was loved by so many. The way he could bring out the best in everyone he crossed paths with always astonished me. I will miss his laughter and all of our Tropical Smoothie trips very much. Connor will always be adored and held in the highest regard in all of our hearts.
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The earth lost a caring soul and the universe gained a shining star. We will miss your energy for life, your thoughtfulness of others and your amazing wit. Peace be with Connor.
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Connor and I met only a few years ago when he came to school at KRHS but as I look back it seems like we had a life time of memories together. He was a compassionate and strong individual but what I will miss the most was how goofy Connor could be. In reflecting on old pictures I realized every single one had a story attached in which Conner made me smile. I think that’s what he did best, made people smile. My memories are that of going to homecoming together, taking spontaneous car rides, getting food from all over, and sitting in his car just talking about anything and everything. In the time he spent at my house he taught my brothers to play poker, cooked food shirtless in my kitchen (there’s a story there!) and spent the night in my room watching movies and talking about future plans to travel the world. He was a brother to me and will always be one of my best friends. I’m going to miss him something awful but I know he’ll be watching me and his other friends and family for the rest of our lives. If I could take away just one thing from Connors life I want to take his spirit of adventure. No idea was ever too big or daunting. I know if he were here he would encourage me and everyone else to live with passion and excitement as he did. I love you so very much Connor, rest easy until we meet again.
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Jon carrying Connor across rain swollen creek on one of our most memorable hikes at White Oak Canyon.
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I will always remember you and love you. I will miss you. I remember you and Ray as best friends as kids and later as young adults sitting in my kitchen and all of us laughing. You blessed us all just by being in our lives.
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Connor was one of my first friends at VCU. I cherish our memories together, he was such a fun and caring person. I love and miss him so much.
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