Bring your stories, your feelings, your laughter, and maybe a cat blanket or toy to donate in honor of Pamela Rivera, who would have mothered the world.  Bring your appetite because no event involving Pam lacked snacks.  Please contact PamRiveraMemorial@gmail.com if you'd like to bring some finger food (easy to walk with), as it will be a partial potluck!

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Itsie Bitsie Rescue, a 501(c)3 non-profit Pam supported.

A note on attire: Please help us bring a smile to her heart by dressing colorfully or representing the things she loved which may include Hawaii, cats, cherry blossoms…. if you knew her, you know.

Celebration of a Life Very Well Lived

Melanie Johnson

Pamela Rivera

Pamela Kondo Rivera unexpectedly passed away on August 7th, 2023, at the age of 73.  She is survived by her husband, Dennis, sisters, Patricia and Suzanne (and Manu), grandchildren, Kyle and Ashe, and furchildren, Beignet, Jigsaw, Tetris, and Sudoku.  In addition, while Pam had 2 biological children, Brad and Melanie, her maternal instinct made her “Mom Rivera” to countless others throughout her life.
Born and raised in Hawaii, Pam loved kids and loved helping others. She loved helping with her baby sister, 6 years younger. She loved working in special education and helping ALL students.  As a military wife, she taught in a variety of cities and settings across the world before she settled her family in California, near her older sister and parents.  Settling into Penryn Elementary School, she took great pleasure in being able to see her students grow from kindergarten through 8th grade and beyond!! She picked up students on her way to work, helping them before school/after school, and during any “break” she was supposed to take.  Her teachers knew they could send any student to her for help, even if they weren’t on her caseload.  Some of her students would call her for tutoring help on the phone, even after they moved out of state or graduated from Penryn and moved on to highschool.
After work, she filled her evenings taking care of her extended family, which included her children’s friends.  Pam never knew how many kids she would drive home after school in her Toyota van (always reminding them it was “Toyota, NOT TOY” if they were too rambunctious).  There was always extra food for anyone who showed up for dinner.  Throughout her life, numerous people moved into the house when they were down on their luck or just needed a place to stay.
She was in her element when she and her older sister began having grandchildren.  Pam’s patience for kids was limitless.  When her younger sister began having grandkids, she’d babysit them too- through Facetime.  Pam spent hours being carried around the house on the East Coast, with the camera often facing the ceiling or a wall while the kids chatted away to their Aunty Pammy as they played, ate, or went potty.
In her retirement, she focused on taking care of her family, including her daughter’s foster kittens.  Though she insisted she didn’t want a cat of her own, she ended up with 4 cats that became the center of the household.
Pam spent nearly every day caring for others, and her legacy of love and laughter will live on in every life she has touched.
In Lieu of Flowers, please consider donations of money, blankets, or handmade cat toys to Itsie Bitsie Rescue.
Pam was not a green thumb, a deficit she passed down to her daughter, Melanie. In turn, Melanie’s children have claws, fur, and a natural instinct to shove things off of ledges. In fact, one lovely memorial flower vase has already been shattered.
Pam WAS known as a cat lover and her cats were a central focus in her life.  Once she got these amateur photoshop sushi pics of her cats, she carried them in her purse to show everyone.  If a cashier at the grocery store made any pet related comment, those pictures would come out.  She carried no other pictures in her purse, just her sushi cats!
All 4 of her babies were adopted from her daughter’s rescue, Itsie Bitsie Rescue.  Pam loved to meet and talk about each litter her daughter fostered and supported every IBR fundraiser. Just last year, she bought a dozen IBR 2023 calendars and over $400 of IBR See’s candy!
Her last coherent words were instructions on where to find her husband’s medication and detailed instructions on how to feed her cats.  We know that supporting IBR would be the perfect way to honor her life.
Monetary donations can be made directly to IBR  (link below) or to her daughter, Melanie’s Venmo @kitteeohana with “IBR donation in memory of Pamela Rivera” in the comments
All IBR kittens are sent home with a handmade adoption blanket donated by our blanket fairies and a cat toy.  We’d love to fill a basket with adoption blankets and handmade cat toys to add color to her service.
Adoption blankets should be 24”x24” and can be quilted, crocheted, or no-sew fleece. The internet is filled with DIY videos for no-sew fleece blankets that are easy to make. DIY cat toy instructions are also readily available with a google search for crafters of all levels.
Read Pam's kitten adoption stories here:
https://kitteeohana.wixsite.com/website/post/beignet-added-8-30-2020
https://sites.google.com/view/kitteeohana/puzzle-kittens

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