Gary Wayne Schaefer

I met Gary as a teenager, at a get together where a few of us brought our guitars. I loved the sound of his voice and his guitar style right off the batt. What I didn’t know was what a great friend and mentor he would become. Over the years, we would have so many fine music gatherings. He and I always had a musical mind-meld, a type of telepathy when you knew what the other was about play and vice versa. It was a special gift. Gary always listened and always gave or modeled good advice. He set a great example as a husband and father. I have told my children that if I could have a relationship with each of them like Gary had with Brandy, I would be a happy man. Gary made me realize that being a spiritual man and doing your duty for your family and friends doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy what this life has to offer. He worked hard, too care of everyone, yet always seemed at the center of fun. Bonita and Brandy, I came to love you two as well over those years. I can’t imagine the pain of your loss. You three are the model of a close family that I have always admired. And David, I know Gary loved you like a son and that you felt the same. I’m so sorry my brother. Take care of yourself and those girls. It will be tough to step int Gary’s shoes, but I know you can do it. The lyrics to one of the songs Gary loved to play keeps running through my head. “ I always thought that I’d see you again” I’m going to plan on that.