AKA: Edward, Eduardo ♥, Eddie
HOW THIS MEMORIAL CAME TO BE:
On October 15, 2017, I felt a strong urge to reconnect with an important person from my past in Boston — Ed Connelly. Though we knew each other only for a short time, the role he played in my life was no less significant than with others I knew much longer. I never forgot Ed and the great times we had, but our lives had taken different paths many years ago, and though I never attempted to reconnect, today felt distinctly different.
An invisible voice seemed to nudge me, encourage me, almost guide me, so this time I decided to make that attempt. I became filled with excitement of what I was sure would be an extremely rewarding phone reunion. I expected lots of laughter and craziness, and then we’d hang up, and go back to our lives, but with a feeling of satisfaction and contentment. That’s all I was anticipating.
But my search ended almost the moment it began. The shock from seeing his obituary stopped me in my tracks. I was completely unprepared for this outcome. I struggled to believe it, but the crushing reality began to sink in. Suddenly I became aware that today’s date, October 15th, was the 7th anniversary of his death. A powerful sense of loss and mourning flooded me, but then, I sensed my original goal shifting, rather than ending.
I immediately felt compelled to act, to "preserve" and honor Ed's life. Since I conduct historical and genealogical research on families with roots in New England, this new focus felt tailor-made for me. The feeling was so palpable that it did not seem at all like coincidence. It felt like a calling to make sure that Eduardo was remembered.
This took me on a physical journey to meet people who also knew Ed and to learn everything I could to help me fill the gaps. Ed’s life mattered. He died far too young but did many vibrant things in that short time. I was determined to make sure his death was not in vain. This also became a spiritual journey of my own; to embrace, to celebrate, and ultimately, to have closure.
This memorial is the result. I voluntarily took on the role of Sponsor for the commemoration of Eduardo. I have compiled photos, memories, stories, mementos, and news articles. This is also a platform for others who wish to pay tribute to Ed. I have also sponsored his Findagrave.com site and have contributed all of my research for anyone interested.
The moral to this story: Reach out to people from your past before you no longer have that option.
My deepest gratitude to MAT and JVH for their time, energy, and generosity. I could not have realized this tribute without them.
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My Eulogy: IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING that Ed was a very special man and an all-around great guy. But to me, and to many others, he was much more than that.
Genuine, kind, and exceptionally charming, Eduardo was a gentle, caring, and sweet soul. He was a soft-spoken, sensitive spirit who radiated tenderness and magnetism. He was handsome, sexy, and undeniably cool and charismatic. His warm eyes sparkled when he talked. His mirthful laughter was irrepressible. His winsome smile—completely irresistible.
Ed was a creative and clever man who spun life’s moments into joy and laughter, both for himself and for others. He was generous and thoughtful and he loved to have fun. He was intelligent and articulate, customizing his communication with his own brand of droll humor. Buoyed by his bold and brave nature, he learned to reinvent himself when life presented challenges. When faced with his most personal struggles, Ed was especially fearless, resolute to the end.
He was also a hybrid angel-devil, and of course, human too. Mischievous and exceedingly playful, Ed got away with some things that others would never dream of trying. Self-assured and proud, cocky and sassy, he was undaunted by other's opinions and unabashedly certain of his own. The devil-side could be impudent and unforgiving, audacious and boastful. But Eduardo deftly crafted all of his traits into an enviable Modus Operandi which included crackling wit, satirical commentary, and sarcastic "sick" humor. The man was smooth.
Eduardo wove a kind of magic throughout his life that captivated and enchanted those lucky to be in his sphere. His time on earth created an enduring fondness for him that transcends both time and distance. To me, he was a super-fun friend, a trustworthy confidant, and a high-spirited enjoyable companion. Ed, Edward, Eduardo -- I am proud to say that I knew you.
KMG, 15 October 2017
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| Nombre | Ed Connelly |
| Fecha de nacimiento | 18 octubre, 1962 |
| Fecha de defunción | 15 octubre, 2010 |
| Ciudad de origen | Boston, MA, US |
| Otra ciudad | New Orleans, LA, US |
| Frase favorita | Ed liked the "Mr. Politeness Man" series in National Lampoon. He also loved Teena Marie, "Lady Tee" (I'm talkin' square biz : ) |
| Donación en memoria del difunto | http://neworleanscitypark.com/botanical-garden |
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| Cementerio | St. Patrick's Cemetery 3 |
| Dirección |
143 City Park Avenue New Orleans LA 70119 United States |
| Lugar | Theriot-Melancon |
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| Padres | Elizabeth A. Daly, John Edward Connelly |
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| 1972 | Grace Knight Babson Award, 4th Grade, Pesented at the Richard Knight Auditorium, Babson College, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1973 | Outstanding Academic Achievement Certificate, 5th Grade, St. Paul's School, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1973 | Presented the "old German" poem, The Linden Tree, Christmas Pageant, 6th Grade, St. Paul's School, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1976 | St. Paul Elementary School, Wellesley, Massachusetts, Graduated 1976 | ||
| 1978 | Honorable Mention, Sophomore Year, Wellesley High School, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1979 | Cultural Exchange Student, Martinique, French Class, Junior Year, Wellesley High School, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1979 | Honors, 1st Quarter Senior; Honorable Mention, 2nd Quarter Senior, Wellesley High School, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1980 | Wellesley High School, Wellesley, Massachusetts, Graduated 1980 | ||
| 1981 | Haagen Daz, New Orleans | ||
| 1983 | Interior Landscaper, Plantae, Bough Haus, Wellesley, Massachusetts | ||
| 1984 | Tulane University, New Orleans, Louisiana, Bachelor of Arts, English, School of Arts & Sciences | ||
| 1986 | Silk Flowers, Elizabethtown, Kentucky | ||
| 1991 - 2010 | Realtor, RE/MAX, 8001 Maple St., New Orleans, Louisiana | ||
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Kingdom of Pretty - Bonnie Bailey, ©2006. Strollin' through Elysian fields with you. Our lush first hypnotic phase. Cooing words meltin' ice glaciers. Keep me turning to the next page [Chorus:] Everyday is our first time for something new. As compelling as you are to me I am to you. Curiosity has me peeking through your kingdom of pretty. A formless flow of magical symphony. Consumed by the fragrant possibilities. Curiosity has me peeking through your kingdom of pretty. You feel familiar. A comfort that comes with years. Sparkles flush my skin. I swelled up in tears. As I trace your footsteps around the world. Crushin' over you like a little girl. I flutter among the butterflies ∞
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Thinking of you today. Another time connection. Smile well, friend. ♥️ 15 Oct 2019.
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The Times Picayune, New Orleans, Louisiana, 4 November 2010: CONNELLY -- Edward A. Connelly, of Wellesley, MA, passed away on October 15, 2010 at the age of 47. Eddie was a 1984 Tulane graduate, and a Real Estate agent with RE/MAX N.O. Properties since 1991. A man of great wit and civic pride, Eddie will be sorely missed by all, but especially by Mary Ann Casey and his extended "family" in New Orleans. He is survived by his mother, Elizabeth; brothers, Thomas and John; and sister, Carol. Burial was private. A celebration of Eddie's life will take place on Sunday, November 7th, 2010 at 6122 Prytania St., beginning at 4:00 p.m. Co-workers and friends are invited to stop by and share their memories of this special man. Donations: Project Lazarus, P.O. Box 3906, NOLA, 70177 | Friends of City Park, 1 Palm Dr., NOLA 70124. RE/MAX International Relief Fund, P.O. Box 3907, Englewood, CO, 80155. For more information, call (504) 390-1438.
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RIP dear friend. You had to leave 8 years ago today, but you did not die in vain. Your life made a difference. You are loved and remembered. ♥ 15 Oct '18
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published a tribute .
I can’t believe I’m reading this. Ed and I were so close for several years and then we lost touch. I have been thinking about him over the last few days and decided to go online to see if he had a Facebook page or if I could google where he is today. I’m so sad to hear he passed! He took me on my first concert ever to see Cher on the gulf coast. We had an awesome time! At least I have the memories we shared.
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ORIGINALLY FROM A PRIVATE MESSAGE ON FACEBOOK: From Meg P., October 16, 2017, Massachusetts: I am so sad to learn of Ed Connelly's death. He was the sweetest of all men. I remember how he suffered with migraines.
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To see the same and more photos FULL size, go to the following URL (a site I have sponsored which removes the ads): https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/174454834/eduardo-connelly
For Ed's genealogy that I compiled in October & November 2017, see: http://wc.rootsweb.ancestry.com/cgi-bin/igm.cgi?op=GET&db=connellypub&id=I004
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN LEGACY.COM: To all of Ed's family, although I was unable to come by the office on Monday, I express my condolences to all of you. Ed was a gem to work with, dedicated and diligent in his craft. I knew him only a couple of years and was glad for the brief time we spent together. | Susan Gray, RE/MAX N.O. Properties | October 19, 2010 | New Orleans, LA
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN LEGACY.COM: Ed Connelly was one of the kindest, funniest, and most intelligent men I have ever had the privilege to have known. He will be sorely missed by all of us down here in New Orleans, and his spirit will live on forever in all of us. My heart goes out to his family at this time of extreme sorrow. John von Hedemann, RE/MAX N.O. Properties. | John von Hedemann | October 20, 2010 | New Orleans, LA
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN LEGACY.COM: Ed was a great friend to me in my childhood. I remember visiting Scituate with his family, and him coming to Lake Winnipesaukee with us, very fondly. I am very sorry to hear of his passing. | Keith Wanless | November 02, 2010 | Highlands Ranch, CO
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN OBITS.NOLA.COM: "Rest in Peace my old friend and alum. My prayers and condolences go out to your family." | Nathaniel Taylor | November 04, 2010 | Atlanta, GA
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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN OBITS.NOLA.COM: "All written re: Ed was so on mark. He was a real gem to work with as a realtor & a very kind person. You will be missed." | Judith Triche | November 05, 2010 | New Orleans, LA
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